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05/06/2008 13:53
WashingtonPharmD
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Hi all,

I am a pharmacy student from the university of washington. I am doing a presentation on fibromyalgia, and I wanted to get your perspective. I am mostly curious what you want health care providers to know. What can doctors, nurses and pharmacists do to communicate better with you, help you more, etc. Any feedback would be great. Thanks!

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05/06/2008 14:51
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There are a lot of things I want doctors to know.

1.While initial tests may show no abnormalities, fibromyalgia patients suffer real pain,keep testing.

2.It is difficult for us to get to the doctor during a flare. Many times we put off going to the doctor due to attitudes of dismissal from doctors. That doesn't help the pain.

3.MOST of us do not want to be on any meds at all. We do need pain medicine but are afraid to ask for it as we will be pidgenholed as abusers. Most of us are not like that and will wait until the pain becomes totally unbareable before we take it, rather then go back to the doctor to ask for more.

A true pain control regime would allow us to take meds on a schedule so that it doesn't come to that.

4. We know we need to exercise and eat less. So do you.

5. We know we need to find a way to deal with stress. Handling the stress of a messy house is incredably easy. You get up and clean right? Not if you have fibro. you have to plan your day out to the last drop of energy. You must decide if you are going to cook dinner, wash clothes or run to pick up dog food. You can't do all three, (because of energy and pain levels) so you must delegate.

I don't even talk to people much anymore about it because most people think "it's all in your head."

I am really tired of being dismissed. If you study history, diabetic patients were thought to be crazy until medicine revealed the causes. This has been true for many illnesses.

I am ranting now...LOL

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05/06/2008 14:54
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Thanks! Do you mind if I share your reply with my class during my presentation. I will not identify you of course
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05/06/2008 19:34
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Ksdmjd

I totally agree...everything I Dito....they also need to do more studying on the whole Fibro thing and research so we can do more for patients in the future....I want more that just another pill to take...I want to know why I am the way I am and what I really need to do to handle it insted of taking another pill!!

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05/06/2008 20:20
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Hello to you all!

Can I add some thoughts? I agree totally with KSD!

I'd like to stress the importance of doctors really listening to us! To be more knowledgable on Fibro. I mean it should be something that NEEDS to be intergrated into the doctors medical knowledge. They need to know all about it, whether they agree with it or not. Like KSD said, diabetes wasn't understood for many years as well as many other diseases. How can so many people be faking it when all of us have the almost exact symptoms? What? Did we all conspire together to tell the doctors the same symptoms, already??

We NEED sympathic doctors and nurses! I was dx with it in 1987 and I was flying blind! No help with excrusiating pain and migrain type headaches 24/7....need I go on?

Ok, I'm done venting...thanks so much...{{{sigh}}} I feel better already! LOL

Truly though, doctors gotta stop from treating us like drug seekers....we're in pain! I want a doctor who really listens!!!

Ok, settle down.....don't worry, I'm alright!

Take care and I hope the future pharmacist does well on her presentation!

Spruce

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05/06/2008 21:10
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When are you doing this presentation? I might be doing one myself at a national conference but I won't know if my proposal was accepted until next month. A big focus will be on the current traditonal and non-traditional approaches to treating it. I also will be conducting a survey with members from this group so other healthcare professionals know what people with fibro are struggling with.

I think most of us have found that it is hard to find a good doctor to treat you. Doctors know this condition isn't easy to manage so it's hard for us to get appropriate support.

None of us MEAN to belly ache. None of us want a free ride in life. Most of us had careers and life goals and all that before we had fibro. We aren't hypochondriacs we feel sick eveyday but we look normal. It's like waking up in the middle of a nightmere you can't get out of.

Most of us need meds- often harder pain meds which doctors don't like to give out. Believe me if we could find some nature approach and didn't need stronger drugs most of us would do that at the drop of a hat.

Chronic illness often causes depression and anxiety. I put it in that order because many of us didn't have major emotional problems until fibro got worse.

If we had some money- I fall into this catagory- we spent lots of money seeing all kinds of alternative doctors trying to get help. We are sometimes called doctor hopper when in reality we are relief seekers. Many people consider suicide BECAUSE they have fibro and can't get enough relief.

Most of us have gone thru periods of being ashamed or uncomfortable asking for other medication. Many of us use antidepressants. At first I was so ashamed of this I would only go through the pharmacy drive thru to get mine.

I want to feel better and so do most people. I think doctors see us as a pain in the butt because sometimes we know more about the condition then they do- that's for sure- because we do so much research trying to find things to help us.

Please tell them we only want help and the pain and fatigue we feel leaves us on certain days with very little quality of life and that isn't an over statement. Some folks here had to quit working and because of that may lose their homes. It is very scary not knowing what the future holds.

Even if this isn't KILLING us physically it does take an emotional toll. I for one don't enjoy feeling fatigued and achy EVERYDAY like I have the flu. How well could someone function in their life and job if that is how they felt everyday.

Well I've gone on enough. I hope this is helpful!!1

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05/06/2008 22:06
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I don't mind. I also don't mind if you identify me. It is very frustrating to be treated like an ignorant person when I know probably much more then they do about the subject.

Also, I have been referred to many doctors for fibro. Noone wants responsibility for it. We don't fit in.

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