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03/28/2008 22:42
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HI EVERY ONE I AM APPLYING FOR DISSABILITY. I HAVE A INTERVIEW THIS MONDAY. DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY TIPS?
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03/28/2008 23:01
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Good Luck Lillian. It didn't work for me. I did my homework and even talked to a friend that worked for the SS office who told me what to do & not to do. I just have crappy luck with doctors. They paid no attention to me. One was on his cell phone the entire time he checked me out (a whole 5 minutes). And the psych. exam was weird. The doc. asked me 5 questions at the beginning of the exam, then during the middle, she asked me the answers, it was something like what color was the umbrella, how old was the dog...she also asked me if I had a happy childhood, what my parents did for a living, how much money thay made (I'm not a kid), but I don't know, that's their business, then she told me in so many words that she didn't believe me. I told her to go to hell. That if one of her children was in this much pain all of the time, with migraines, IBS, swollen joints, dizziness, blah, blah, blah, seizures, she would do anything for her kids, right? She threw me out.

Not to scare you, but there are really some "interesting" people out there. Maybe you could say that person was me, but I stood up for myself. After so long (you know, the doctor thing, I don't believe you crap), she was...I mean, I tried, I begged, I cried, I groveled (sp?) and she was so uncaring. I guess she was just doing her job. Be prepared. Maybe you will get lucky. I guess I don't look sick enough.


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03/28/2008 23:25
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HI SUMMER, THANKS SO MUCH FOR RESPONDING SO QUICKLY. IM SO SORRY FOR WHAT YOU WENT THROUGH AND CONTINUE TO LIVE WITH. I HAVE A REALY GREAT DOCTOR NOW THAT SAID HE'LL HELP ME. I HOPE THAT HELPS . BUT BEFORE HIM I SAW COUNTLESS DOCTORS STARTING BACK IN 1996 BUT IVE BEEN LIVING WITH PAIN FOR AS LONG AS I CAN REMEMBER. THEY NEVER EVEN RAN TESTS. I COULD BARELY WALK FROM SO MUCH PAIN IN MY KNEES BACK ANKLES AND WRISTS AT TIMES I COULDNT EVEN PICK UP A GLASS OF WATER WITH ONE HAND . MY BACK FELT AS IF IT HAD BEEN THROUGH A MEET GRINDER, MIGRANES THAT LASTED UP TO 3 DAYS. I COULDNT SLEEP. LOSS OF HAIR YOU NAME IT IVE SUFFERD THROUGH IT. ALL THE DOCTORS SAID ITS BECAUSE I WAS OVER WEIGHT OR WORKED TO MUCH OR WAS PREGNANT OR HAD NOT RECOVERED FROM MY C-SECTION BEFORE I GOT PREGNANT AGAIN OR THAT I HAD TWO BABIES UNDER 2YRS OLD. BUT YOU KNOW YOUR OWN BODY ITS NOT NORMAL TO CRINGE FROM PAIN WHEN YOUR ONE YR OLD HUGS YOU. I JUST CANT IMAGINE LIVING THE REST OF MY LIFE LIKE THIS. I HAVE SOMETIMES THE MOST HORRIBLE THOUGHTS I THINK I MIGHT GO MAD FROM THE PAIN. ITS IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO HOLD A JOB. THAT DEPRESSES ME EVEN MORE. I HAD A WONDERFUL CAREER AND LIVED A FAIRYTALE LIFE FOR A WHILE BACK WHEN THE PAIN WAS TOLORABLE. ANYWAY THANKS FOR LISTENING. IF THEY COULD JUST SEE OUR PAIN THEY WOULD WRITE US A CHECK THAT SECOND. THANKS AGAIN AND TAKE CARE. PS SORRY ABOUT THE SPELLING , TO TIRED TO GO BACK AND CHECK.
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03/29/2008 00:02
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Hey Lillian,

So sorry about the pain. It's terrible isn't it? And no one understands. My Mom asks me to explain it once in a while, I try, but can't. I think I Have always had it, but it manifested about (and I always get this wrong) in 2003 or 4 when I had 2 seizures. Everything changed after that. My husband had to help me up from the toilet, my knees would lock and get so sore. My fingers would get so swollen I couldn't feed myself, hell, I would forget to eat & couldn;t make myself dinner or the kids. No one understood and family was getting mad at me thinking I was lazy and I could not go back to work. I know what it's like, just not as long as you. The insomnia is yucky and my GERD makes me vomit avery few days. I'm trying not to do that now. I know the migraines...I have had one everyday for the past month and going. And those cramps! Holy Crap! What else can I say...IBS Embarrassing, almost had some bad situations...And can't remember my own name and address sometimes.

I'm glad your doctor is working with you. That's most of the battle. Good luck. I'm sure you'll do well. It's just me people don't like that's why I didn't win my case. I'm really a nice person (look I'm saying all of these wonderful things about myself), but people see me and I guess, so I've been told I have a "B**chy" look on my face and since I'm skinny (well I have acid reflux, lactose intolerance, and IBS) and assume I'm rude, unapproachable, snobby? I just really don't have good eyesight and maybe that the look on my face.

Just get some rest this weekend, but look terrible when you go in for your questions. You know what I mean.


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03/30/2008 16:36
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THANKS FOR THE ADVICE SUMMER, ILL REMEMER NOT TO PUT ON MAKE UP. I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN ABOUT THE IMPRESSION PEOPLE CAN GET BY JUST LOOKING AT YOU. MY HUSBAND HAS ASKED ME ON NUMEROUS OCATIONS IF I WAS ANGRY OR IN A BAD MOOD? THAT THE LOOK ON MY FACE MADE HIM NOT WANT TO COME NEAR ME. WELL,WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE CRAP AND ANY SMELL WILL MAKE YOU BARF, YEAH YOUR GOING TO HAVE A YUCKY FACE. IM SO SORRY IT DIDNT WORK OUT FOR YOU. I HOPE THEIR IS ANOTHER STEP YOU CAN TAKE TO GET THE HELP YOU NEED AND DESERVE. BIG HUG! TAKE CARE.
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