Hi Chele, I don't think I have welcomed you to the group and I do. I have a mixture of kids too. My kids could drive but we can't afford to put them on the insurance. Inspiring words....This is difficult because the rain has made me a little grumpy, Divide you duties up b/t what you have to do and what you think you have to do. I used to be at every event and even practice. Now, I go to what I feel like attending. I do feel guilty sometimes, but I have to take care of me too, and that makes for a better tomorrow for everyone. Don't be afraid to let people know you are not up to snuff. Ease off of the volunteering. Get someone else like your older child, your mom or dad, or a friend to take your turn. There is no shame in being sick. You would probably be the first one to do it for someone else. Housework---Do what has to be done, divide up the chores into days. Ask for help. Do you go to church. Maybe someone there could help. Kids can do alot more than you think, If not---Dirty room---Bad day---Close door! Biggest insight: If people come to see you and the house is a mess, just remember, they are there to see you not the house. Quick cleaning hint: 1)Open nearest door and throw everything that doesen't belong in room into that closet. 2)sprinkle lysol or other nice smelling cleaning stuff in corners where company will not go 3)light candles YOU ARE READY FOR COMPANY Hope this helps, Sandi |
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