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03/14/2008 23:54
Lavandertea
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OMG I have so many issues with trying to deal with this ........ I can't keep up with all of the things that need to be done around our house - I am no Nancy neat - BUT, I cannot deal with the detail of the cleaning - like the kitchen & the bathrooms. When it comes to the vaccuming and the dusting, I try,

but I usually fall short. Other than a Cleaning service, can anyone make a suggestion???

Thanks for your help!!

Renee - AKA Lavandertea
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03/15/2008 02:32
Snoopy30
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pick your priorities and then do them slowly. When i do dust I do part of the room then sit and rest then do the another part and rest. In my mind my living room is split up into 3 sections I rest after each section. Sometimes it takes me a couple days to do all I want but better to spread it out than to over do. Do you have kids at home? give them chores. My son is responsible for his bathroom and bedroom it may not always get done the way I want but I've learned to live with that. When I know I'm having company I go in and do finishing touches but he's already done the hardest part.
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03/15/2008 05:57
mamanordy
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I just take my time, and I leave the tubs for my dh, that is too hard for me to do. Like Snoopy said I just rest in between. Dont overdo it, the housework will still be there.
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03/15/2008 07:45
ALCSS2008
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This is the worst thing I have had learn to deal with. I was always what I felt was an expert cleaner. I loved to do it. I was so organized, it was asmost compulsive. I am almost thankful for the depression at times because then I don't have to care that the house is a mess.

Okay enough complaining. The way I clean my house.

1)I have my husband and my kids take all of the dirty laudry to the basement, (I cannot carry it)

2)The tubs are scrubbed by kids. Toilets are

reserved for dad because Future Trophy Wife

could not possibly clean the throne she uses

multiple times a day.

3)Dusting is done by me as long as it is eye level,

Everything higher or lower is done by someone who

cares to look, or it is no done at all.

4)All rugs are picked up and shook by my wonerful

16 year old son who lovingly complains the

whole time.

5)Time out for lecture on why we are doing

this and reminder of how much money we gave

them last weekend.

6)Time out for food--no food---no work

7)Husband redoes the vaccuming after wonderful son

does lousey job stating the whole time

that in his day he would do it till he got it

right.

8)Wonderful daughter accomplishes lots of

laundry in basement while hiding from angry

dad.

9)Angry dad gives lecture number 2 detailing

why they are doing the cleaning and that

I can't help it I am sick (like they haven't

heard that one before.)

10)Angry dad shoves mop around middle of floor

in his best attempts of mopping (but at

least it smells clean) and rugs are

replaced and house returns to normal

(or as normal as it ever was.) Ssndi

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03/15/2008 07:59
sweetheartsuzee
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I do WHAT I can...WHEN I can...and THAT'S THAT!!

No more than one room a day! And, sometimes it takes ALL day to do that ONE room...but that's okay...it gets done!

~Suzee~
Only YOU can control your thoughts...
SO...
Change your thoughts and CHANGE YOUR LIFE!!!
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03/15/2008 08:33
teri hayes
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have a hard time keeping up with the dishes, let alone anything else. it all may or may not get done. like suzzee that is all there is to it.

teri

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03/15/2008 09:41
cadburry
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This is the worst! Before it was my pain it was the fatigue that made it impossible. I kept thinking to myself how lazy I had become. I guess my boyfriend didn't help much with my feelings because he would say wow, your lazy. He worked all day from 9am until 10pm and he had no idea what I was dealing with. Once it was due to the pain he would roll his eyes and say your always sick. Now he's been out of work for a month now and sees me crying on the phone with my mom because I hurt so bad.No one has called me lazy in a long time now!

My living room, kitchen, and bathroom get cleaned by my boyfriend now, but our bedrooms never get touched. My kids are five and seven, but I can't get them to clean their own room unless I have some kind of reward for them lol.

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03/16/2008 07:56
jeanna4m
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I have a problem with housework also. I hurt so bad most days I just barely get anything done except for a little laundry, cooking, and dishes. I have a husband and two teenagers and have had fibro for 10 years now and they will not help. I will tell them to do something but it doesn't ever seem to get done. I love my husband very much but he doesn't back me up and the kids know that I feel so bad that I am not going to argue with them. I wish we could afford someone to come in ever couple of weeks to do some cleaning. But with me unable to work and not on disability there just isn't any hope.
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03/16/2008 09:06
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well, i can't say i might be much of a help... but for me, trying to maintain a clean house.. has been a challenged..since a child i've always been told i have ocd by everyone...i try to leave fridays as my cleaning days but sometimes the pain is too much...but i the days i clean i put on music, like classic r&b..sing along and that tends to help me..
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