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03/16/2008 08:08
tammync
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I don't know what started doctors on the "depression" kick, but I hear it ALL THE TIME! I know a lot of folks do get some relief while on anti-depressants, but that isn't reason enough to think depression is causing the FM symptoms, in my opinion, and is actually the other way around. I was on a medication that was originally developed to treat seizures, but was also found to help with neuropathy. When my neuropathy subsided on the medication, it didn't mean I must have had seizures I wasn't aware of, did it? Anyone with chronic pain is going to get depressed from time to time and it needs to be treated just like any other SYMPTOM of FM, but doctors who see depression as the cause of FM need to remember which came first.
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03/16/2008 08:17
sweetheartsuzee
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EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~Suzee~
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Change your thoughts and CHANGE YOUR LIFE!!!
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03/16/2008 08:18
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Do you think it is because woman can only be three things:

1) pregnant

2) crazy

3) menopausal

That is how we have been viewed by the health system for along time. For instance: When a woman comes to the ED with chest pain---

On, it is anxiety

When a man comes to the ED with chest pain:

He gets a complete cardiac workup

The system is making slow progress in this area, but we are going to have to stand up and be PROACTIVE!!!!!!!

We are going to have to stand up for ourselves until we are heard. The magnet ribbon is a good start.

Sandi

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03/16/2008 10:01
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When I went to the doctor for the first time with all of my fibro pain,She said it was fibro before even looking at me. She said that I could have written the book on fibormyalgia because my symptoms were classic fibromyalgia symptoms She checked me over and referred me to a rheumatologist. He did all the tests and said I had Lupus and Fibro along with a host of other medical issues. He did nothing but refer me to the Mayo Clinic for a fibromyalgia pain program. There I found an understanding Doctor that helps me manage the pain. Actually there are two doctors there that I see and like. There is another one that I saw there that shouldn't practice medicine at all. He is horrible.He told me that he wouldn't give me pain meds. if I was dying. Little does he know that with this pain I am dying. It seems to be very hard to find a good doctor. If they (doctors) had to deal with this everyday, I'm sure they would get pain meds. for themselves. With all the people that suffer with this, there has to be a few doctors that have it. Hopefully the medical proffesionals will hurry up and get a clue about fibromyalgia. It may take some time to find the right doctor and the right combo of meds, HANG IN THERE, Chris
Your Friend, Chris
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03/18/2008 11:22
Willy
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I read somewhere on this site that they were working on a live chat.. I told Cadburry on another thread of this book that I read last fall called "How Doctors Think". It was enlightening to me though I feel fortunate to have had two real good Doc on this FMS......The one who diagnosed it 15 years ago and tried some then current thinking and some alternative therapies and the one who diagnosed it again more recently. Best wishes to all.
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03/18/2008 11:30
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Admin. is working on a live chat for us...it's not quite 'there' yet though. In the meantime, if you'd like to join us on "yahoo chat"...there's a thread on here where we have listed our user names for yahoo and a lot of us chat on there. (well, not me soo much as I just can't find the time) BUT I WANT TO and I TRY!!!

I think there might be a couple of threads on the site that have user names listed for yahoo. I'm not sure...but I know one of them is titled:

Do you yahoo? Maybe try that for now?!

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Post edited by: sweetheartsuzee, at: 03/18/2008 13:34

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09/09/2008 17:24
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I read your message yes I too have been treated badly by my doctor she said she wouldn't put on disability but that I could work three days a week. She keeps prescribing different meds to me hoping that will solve the problem. I am now looking for another doctor.
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09/10/2008 00:31
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My past doctors have attributed any compalint I've made about pain to fibro and refused to investigate it, which made me upset because not EVERYTHING is due to fibro.

I also had one horrible urgent care doctor who took one look at my chart, saw I had fibro, and sent me away with no pain relief. She refused to treat me.

I certainly hope others haven't experienced the same types of things from their doctors here!!

*gentle hugs*

sierra

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09/10/2008 08:55
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Sierra, that sucks! How awful for you. I found my dx to be a relief because I finally knew I wasn't imagining all these symptoms, no matter what my ex said. Later I realized how depressing it was knowing I had this condition that doctors don't understand, one that "labels" me, and will probably last the rest of my life.

I've only seen my PCP so far for pain so I haven't had problems with other doctors. My GYN is more curious than anything--she's learning about fibro through me. My opthamologist could care less and if I mention fibro to his technicians they stare at me as if I have two heads but it's the same reaction I get when I tell them I have a cervical stenosis and their stupid machines hurt my neck.

I'm amazed that I wasn't dx'd sooner. I have been treated in the past for migraines, arthritis, IBS, TMJ, skin sensitivities, muscle spasms, sensitivities to medicines and perfumes, insomnia, depression, cervical stenosis...all that and I wasn't given the tender points test until the third time I complained about tingling numbness in my hands & feet.

So knowing you have fibromyalgia is a blessing and a curse. I think doctors fear treating any chronic pain patient in an Urgency Care or ER setting because they're afraid that we're shopping for pain medication and withholding information about other pain meds we might be taking. And sadly, some doctors still don't believe in fibro and think we're all nothing but drug addicts.

rayne >^.^
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09/10/2008 09:42
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I agree completley with the last paragraph of the post by raynedae! I couldn't understand for the longest time about hearing about people going to the ER or urgent care for severe pain and been given nothing. But then I figured out exactly what raynedae said, "So knowing you have fibromyalgia is a blessing and a curse. I think doctors fear treating any chronic pain patient in an Urgency Care or ER setting because they're afraid that we're shopping for pain medication and withholding information about other pain meds we might be taking. And sadly, some doctors still don't believe in fibro and think we're all nothing but drug addicts."

It's sad but true. I mean not every doctor obviously but I believe that's why the ones that turn you down, turn you down. It makes perfect sense. We need to raise awareness and educate these people



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