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bc1028
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Cornbread I am glad that you have been able to overcome this issue. I do get my husband to do a massage first because it is very relaxing but of course, then I am so tired. It is certainly something that is challenging but you have to overcome it or at least adapt in order to make your relationship work. I do tell my husband that I love him so much for working with me and not going and get it somewhere else.
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06/04/2009 06:44 AM
Cornbread
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so you are doing the right thing! I know it's hard... no pun intended... but this is one thing I hate to see anyone give up on. It's important for a couple to have that intimacy, and sounds like you're doing the right thing by talking!

06/04/2009 07:27 AM
hatbox121
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I also find that if I just go ahead and do it, that after a couple of minutes I start to get into it.

06/04/2009 10:38 AM
mvgallegos
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I have alot of pelvic pain and sex and a hot bath are the only things that help.. Like Cornbread said once those endorphins kick in..

06/04/2009 11:36 AM
Cornbread
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yep, sex is great as a pain killer. and a hot bath never hurts! maybe sex in a hot bath is even better!!!

06/04/2009 12:13 PM
mvgallegos
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I'm with you on that one...HA!

06/04/2009 12:25 PM
Kgrin
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Hey.. Sex in a hot tub is even better lol!!

06/04/2009 12:38 PM
Cornbread
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yes, yes it is....

06/04/2009 01:01 PM
mulesmom
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okay ladies, listening to you makes me forget the questionW00t And my husband just left for work

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I don't have the dryness problem, but I do have the problem with the fatigue, I mean how do you want anything when you are so tired.

I to have a very understanding husband. Does the relaxtion things help with the desire part? I mean will my mind get more into if I kick start my body first?

btw I seen this and thought that is how I feel sometimes.Grin fy164


06/04/2009 01:03 PM
mulesmom
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minus the cigarette though Grin
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