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02/15/2008 07:19
Fletch2ya
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HI...all sorry this is a really bad day for me.....

It comes every Feb 15th.....this goes along with a posting that TeainTn Did today on Courage....

...I lost a friend in Viet Nam, who told me courage came from a person that is so affraid of where he is, that he his fear turns his inner self into the person he really is....... some run away..... and the others turn and fight...... these that turn and fight are HERO's..... I have met very few HEROs in my life but John was one.......

John was my helicopter pilot.... who died on a mission near the DMZ..... He was a fighter.... I told you this only to say..... turn to the fight...... don't hide under your covers.... get up out of bed every morning..... and fight back....... I know you are sick.... but don't let this disease win your life....... I am sorry.... but this is the day of my friends death...... and ......... I will remember his words to me forever.... today will be again a hard day for me.... my friend died in my arms..... and his last words were of his daughter......... and his wife.......

This since it happened has been a bad day for me...... I wish everyone in this country could just know and remember one person who have been lost in the wars of this country, to see what a price we have paid for our freedom....... so we don't lose it.....

John died in a very lonely place..... far from home...... My co-pilot was killed instantly..... but John lingered...... I prayed for him to die..... and this was my friend......... may God forgive me.......

I am sorry I know this is off subject.... but I have no one else to talk to about this.....I just had to say something......some how.........sorry.......

Craig

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02/15/2008 07:24
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I'll be thinking about you today Craig. I can not relate to your pain but I know it must be terrible. thank you for sharing this story with us. you have honered John by sharing his will to fight with us. he will always be remembered as a hero.
There is a light at the end of the tunnel -- but it's a train about to run over you.
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02/15/2008 08:06
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Hang in there Fletch- obviously he was a very special person to you and you went through a tramatic time together. None of us who haven't been on the war field could ever understand what you guys have gone through. Thank you for serving our country!
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02/15/2008 10:18
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and you are a hero too, Craig. I am sorry for the pain of your loss,

and I am sure that it never gets any easier. Thank you for sharing that memory with us, that we never take his sacrifice or our freedom for granted, and that we always remember to honor those who have fallen and those who have served.

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02/15/2008 11:41
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in honor of all of the men and woman who hav served our country living a dead through all of the wars we fly a flag in our front yard. I come from a military family and have hewrd all of the stories, my husband and his friends every so often mass in the yard under the flag and remember their vietnam heroes. they shed their tears and hug each other and say there they are not forgatten. my prayers are with you craig and please know that we are honoring your friend by being able to tell your story at the next bonfire meeting.
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02/15/2008 13:14
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Craig; First I offer my sincere appology for losing your friend. I too am a Vietnam-era veteran. And I know how it feels to lose freinds to war. My brother was wounded in Nam and he came back a mess. I was fortunate, I had orders for Vietnam, but they were changed 3 days before I was to leave. Instead they sent me to Korea. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about the people we lost, and the new veterans of today. When I think of how young we were, with so many dreams and plans for the future. Only to have them changed by war. It breaks my heart when I go to the VA hospital and I see so many of our disabled Vets.

I wish this war would hurry and end. Its caused the break-up of so many families, and broken so many mothers hearts. And you're right when you think of these young lives wasted, it does put your life in perspective. At least we are here. This fight is easy compared to theirs. So go ahead and vent Craig. You deserve the courtesy, honor, and Respect.

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02/15/2008 13:23
Fletch2ya
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HI.... I want to thank everyone for your words....

I am sorry..... this to me is a day of great sorrow..and I have spent most of the day......well crying....I guess as much as a guy can.....I did not in any way mean to bring attention to myself........ I ...was just looking for a way to vent........ I really did not expect anyone to really understand......... right now because of my illnesses...I have few friends to talk with........Judy really is my only friend...... and she has to get tired of it all............. I am just wanted others to know about this person.....who if not for him I would not be alive today......... his name is on the wall........ but he would not want me to advertise him...... he was a normal all american male...... loved life and his wife and daughter..... they were the last thought and words he had........ To me today has been terrible..... I have no words to say how badly I hurt..... today is almost overwhelming for me..... this happens from time to time....but today is just mine...sometimes memories are the hardest things to live with....Please...do not reply to this post...... just think of your loved ones..... if you know of any that have served.....say a prayer for them.....so that they can live with there memories....that haunt them day and night......

.. And as for your loved ones....give them a hug and tell them that you love them...... you may not get another chance...........

Thank you to all my friends......

Craig

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02/15/2008 15:59
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Craig,I have got to know you well enough that calling attention to yourself was the last thing you ever wanted. I cannot even begin to imagine your pain,but thank you for sharing the story of a real live hero. My dad is a vet from the Korean war. He very seldom will talk of it,and my mom said that was when the battle of alcohol took place(no excuse)but back in his day,they was no anti-depressents,xanax or knowledge of mental health issues.He quit drinking years ago,but I had already grown up and was out of the house. I spent my entire childhood with a parent and then later parents of alcoholism.They have since found the Lord and church and it changed their lives. But mine was already shaped from some of the damage done.Now as an adult,I have been able to forgive and move on. We send men and women far away from home to see and suffer unimaginable things and then wonder why they aren't okay when they get home. He is 78 can barely see and is very hard of hearing. He has lower back pain with DDD,but exercises everyday and always laughs and jokes with everyone.He is my hero for not only what he did for our country but in the happiness he always has and shares no matter how bad he feels.
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02/20/2008 08:13
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Craig, What a wonderful heart felt post, about your friend. No need to apoligize, if we can't vent here, then I am in the wrong group.

God Bless you and your friend.

Renae

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