kychick
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He would leave you over this?????That should be a wake up call for you sweetie.You need to ask yourself some really hard questions,and yes maybe stand back and take a hard look at your relationship. I am saying this to you from a point of one wifeandmom to another.I was scared that I would lose everything when I first quit my job,and guess what----I DID,and I am still standing. I lost my job,my friends,my home and my marriage within a 2 year period and right before Christmas. The good news is I feel better,we have had time to really look at the things WE did wrong and out of the ashes will either be the best marriage ever or I will go on alone and I will be okay.I have come to realise,that I am an important person,and my health and well being is important for MY future. You are the only one who can live your life,and if you don't take care of you who will? If you fear him leaving you over money,what will he do when you can no longer take care of the house or the kids or do stuff for him or heaven forbid what if something happened and you couldn't even take care of yourself. You have a valid medical condition that you didn't ask for and don't deserve and you have to do what is best for you. I wish you all the best,and I really,really do understand what this is doing to you. |
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