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02/18/2008 20:26
kychick
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 Ha Ha Craig.....I guess I am being a jerk too.LOL But you're right,we would persecute a man that said that. But I don't think he cares if he is a booty call or not as a matter of fact I think he is Loving it. And besides,I love him and took him medicine when he was sick so he's more than a sex toy to me. Oh that is WAY to funny!! Plus we're still married,I just don't have to wash his underwear or cook his meals anymore. Maybe that's why it's so much more fun. Plus, if he's in a bad mood,or I don't feel good,i can leave....It's ALL good right now.
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02/18/2008 21:24
wildfire826

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 I left my husband for a year and a half and thats how we were but when I got sick and thought I was dieing I had to move back to Chicago with him. We got along so much better living in seperate states. Which does sound bad but he would agree with me. We are just staying together now for the kids when they get old enough I guess I'll move on. But for now in April he's moving to the basement LOL

And Craig its not being a jerk it's being honest LOL It doesnt matter if your male or female

I like you KYchick your my new hero LOL
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02/21/2008 14:13
kychick
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 I agree,it doesnt matter if you're a woman or a man,a jerk is a jerk.I was being open and honest on a subject that is concerning sex. I would also like to say that I have NEVER said or typed anything on this site that i haven't said to my husband to his face or wrote anything I would not show him on this site that I have typed on any subject if he was interested. He is not interested in learning anymore about this illness and how it effects not only me but him.And that is why we are seperated and more than likely will stay that way. If that is man "bashing" then so be it. But I am a woman married to a man and my perspective comes from what I am going through with HIM not every man in the world.If I have offended anyone with my opinions then I will say I am sorry this one time. If you are going to have subjects opened on things like SEX,MARRIAGE or RE:ATIONSHIPS,then you are going to have to accept what those opinions are and that they may offend you....in some way.The only way for that not to happen is to not broach those subjects at all.....

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02/21/2008 15:14
wildfire826

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 I actually say worse to my husband as he does to me thats how its always been Very open and honest about everything maybe sometimes to honest with each other LOL

I don't see how you would of offended anyone KYchick...relationships happen no matter how screwed up they are. Everyone has problems
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02/21/2008 23:06
cappymuir
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 Don't worry about offending anyone with your opinion. That is what being with a support group is to give our opinions and insight to what each other goes through. It does not mean that everyone's opinion is right or wrong but each of has the right to express ourselves as long as we don't direct nastiness to those of us on the support group, then we should be safe. If someones opinion does not agree with what another's it is under each of us to pick and choose what is good from each persons post. We are not here to attack each other. Each of us has different stories but with similarities here and there. We are trying to get things off our chest and find out ways to cope with our body and life has given us to live with. I hope to find honesty and not have someone monitoring what they say because it might offend someone sensibilities. As long as it is not directed to a member they should not ake it personally but look for what they can share on the materials written or not say anything if they can not respond to a subject they can not relate to or understand. I hope this makes sense to everyone. I don't feel that I want to keep on defending myself about experinces or my perspective of my perspectives all the time. It really wastes the productive activity on this support group.
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02/22/2008 06:55
wildfire826

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 I just wrote the same thing in another post cappymuir. I totally agree with what you are saying
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02/27/2008 19:01
angelicahoustin
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 I am the same way, it hurts to have sex sometimes and my drive can be missing sometimes, I get horrible cramping after sex and can't go to deep. I take methadone and 10/650 vics and somas, usually if I'm feeling good from my meds it's a good time to have sex!

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03/04/2008 07:23
cindylouwho
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 Ahhhh, yes - SEX! The only time it's GREAT for me is if we have been out and had a few drinks and that is NOT very often, so you can imagine most of the time how it is for me. Mine in part, is due to a surgery I had on 02/06 for a prolapsed bladder/rectum and also had to do A/P vaginal repairs. BUT, even my ob/gyn said it should not be painful for me this long after this type of surgery. I have beeen married for 15 years this August and for the past 2 years sex is painful for me almost every time. This is mainly the reason I try to avoid it and actually it wouldn't bother me to not have it at all - but that's just not possible Alcohol helps me to enjoy it and have a good time with it. Sad.
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03/05/2008 07:19
Sandradee
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 If only my husband would be emotionally connected to me, or try to be, he would get sex more than the obligatory 1xper week. It has actually been 16 days and I have never gone that long. Even after my babies I never made him wait the 6 weeks. He is being pissy but I have had such severe constipation that I don't think anything else needs to be up near my colon. Sorry if TMI.
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03/05/2008 20:27
truebluetara
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 I have a hard time with sex becasue my muscles tense and cramp up really bad and i have a tilted cervix as well!! I also have a hard time performing uhm well lets just come out and say it oral gifts.. sorry if thats too graphic but i get severe jaw pain so i feel like I am useless in bed It s awful I used to be a wild sex kitten .. and to make matters worse my husband just doesnt understnad fibromialgia at all he is not a big reader becasue he says he doesnt understand stuff very well and when i try to talk abou t it all he just gets mad... I feel so alone but when i was reading all of your posts it hit me I am not alone.. and now i feel like I can deal with this junk... not taht im trying to be rude but does any one else have a problem with the oral thing its like my whjole jaw locks up and it hurts way to fast to actually finish i have tried to alternate but once my jaw hurts it satays really stiff for hours.. ughhhh i want my sex life back...
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