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04/29/2008 16:19
AnnMoss

Uhhh, Barbkubacki, Are you trying to be funny, because that wasn't funny. How dare you minimize, make fun of me almost dying from a UTI. WTF. I guess this place isn't for me. You go girl??????? Flattered ????? Ok I am out of here this isn't support this b.s.

As far as a me getting toy you could of kept that comment up you ass too.

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04/29/2008 16:28
Barbkubacki
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I did not mean to hurt you feelings. I did not mean to minize what happened to you. Yes I thought that some humor is sometimes needed. But you stay in the site. I will leave because my humor is not needed here. I am so sorry for getting you so upset. My sincere apology.

I am out of here. You stay.

Kindness is the only investment that never fails.
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04/29/2008 16:36
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Both of you stay, please!

Barbkubacki, sometimes we DO need humor. For that reason- I hope you will stay.

Hopefully, AnnMoss will accept your apology. Sometimes we all make mistakes and say things we shouldn't. And sometimes, it's simply a mis-interpretation. It gets hard to understand the meaning of a post, an email, a text message, etc.

You both are valuable assetts within the group. We need you BOTH!

AnnMoss- I wanted to tell you too- WOW! That's horrible what happened! I've never heard of such a thing! You are extremely lucky! I can only imagine the pain that you must have endured too!

Post edited by: fibroforever, at: 04/29/2008 18:39

"When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place." ~Unknown


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04/29/2008 16:41
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I second what Fibroforever said! We need each other if we are to overcome the effects that fibro has on our lives. We need humor and laughter and it is very easy to misunderstand and be misunderstood when you deal with a condition such as we have. I for one know that I am one of the most sensitive people you will find and also can say things that sounds ok to me then when I think about it, it has been said all wrong. Please you two, try to get past this and stay with us. We all need each other, don't you think?
"Never take someone for granted
Hold every person close to your heart
Because you might wake up one day
And realize that you've lost a diamond
While you were too busy collecting stones."
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04/29/2008 20:13
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Hello to all my fellow pain pals!

About this so-called joke. Please lets not jump the gun if at all possible. I think I have an idea what 'B' meant and correct me if I'm wrong. I think because many doctors don't seem to except or want to beleive in Fibro, that you Ann, fianlly had something recognized by the doctor. Sometimes when we joke online in type, it can seem to come off the wrong way. I hope we can just allow this to past.

Remember, we're all human and make mistakes and at times we offend and I truly believe no one means to.

This forum is good and gives great outlets to our emotions and feelings. Our bad days and good days. At time our minds are quicker then our thoughts and we put something down that we didn't realize can come off the wrong way.

Please allow this to past and really get to understand each other. It's hard to know who we all are behind our computers. We see no people or their personalities, thus we're feeling our way around with true blindness of each others personalities.

I hope everyone continues to help and encourage each other. I know I will. I've been offended before, but I overlook these things, understanding we all come from different backgrounds and experiences.

Please try t have a good nite and peaceful undisturbed rest!

Spruce aka Laura


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04/30/2008 05:44
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Okay everyone! No more comments on this post. PLEASE!

As soon as I can get it locked- It will be!

For those of you that are mad at Barbkubacki-

She apologized to the person. Did you miss her post? Here's part of it! -- I did not mean to hurt you feelings. I did not mean to minize what happened to you. I am so sorry for getting you so upset. My sincere apology.

Unfortunately, AnnMoss now known as xxxxxx chose not to accept the apology. This was her choice to make, and that's fine. We need to accept her decision.

As a leader, I am working on taking care of this. I am talking with both sides. I'd appreciate it if you'd keep further comments regarding this, to yourself.

We don't need people being mean! No one wants hurt feelings. We're all here for EACH OTHER! We all make mistakes!!! Including myself! So, lets all take a deep breath and hold our comments to ourselves a little bit. We don't need to be attacking one another. And those that are being attacking- Do you think this makes you any better than the person that made the comment and made the mistake of doing so?

Aren't we all here to be loving, caring, and supportive? How are saying cruel comments being these things? They're not!

Everyone wants to "take a side" and that's not the reason we are here!

If it sounds like I'm coming across as LOUD, well- I'm trying to! I'm deeply disappointed in some of you.

Actually, my feelings are really hurt now! I could use an apology, or two, or three, or more!! It just amazes me how some people are so mean. We're all here for the same reason and that's support. Those of you whom are making hateful comments to anyone, no matter whom it is- that doesn't make you any better of a person.

Amy

Post edited by: fibroforever, at: 04/30/2008 07:56

Post edited by: fibroforever, at: 04/30/2008 07:59

"When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place." ~Unknown
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