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04/26/2012 03:56 PM

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mem6526

I know that nobody likes to talk about this subject...BUT...has anyone else lost interest in sex? I mean how in the world are we supposed to want to do that when we are in pain? Just wondering! I think that this is a good topic to talk about. I mean it is just us! Wink Unsure
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04/26/2012 04:42 PM
MoiraWolf
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I've lost almost all interest in sex. Last few times I even tried, it was very painful. I'd say I've lost 99.99% of my interest in it. Maybe every once in a while, the thought crosses my mind, but not too often and it's quickly squelched. Thank goodness for me, hubby's about as uninterested as I am for whatever reason (maybe he's just empathetic?) and doesn't pester me for it.

04/26/2012 04:50 PM
mem6526

I think that it is difficult to be interested in sex when we are in so much pain. It is almost like a whole production and that takes the fun and enjoyment out of it. Make sense? Wassat

04/26/2012 05:28 PM
oroman
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I too lost all interest in sex but I say its because I got a hsyterectomy 9 yrs ago. Plus I am over 55 yrs old, so the hormones are no longer there. Plus I have sleep apnea, so I usually tired. No matter what time of day or night it is, I am tired plus have pain thru out my body most of the time. BUT i do think about it when I am alone, and then remember that I don't want any body bothering me.

Its not such a bad thing to not want sex. I can live without it but have to do it with my hubby every once in a while so hubby doesn't get mad at me.

Thats my story and I am sticking to it. LOL!!!


04/26/2012 05:28 PM
Julzy
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Sex has been absolutely painful since my accident. I enjoy being intimate, but forget having an orgasm!!! I cant get to that point. Hurts too much to tense up. My hubby is very caring and I'm lucky for that. He doesn't push me.

04/26/2012 05:37 PM
mem6526

Olga, You are so funny and adorable! Smile

04/26/2012 05:57 PM
mem1318

Well, I'm still on a roll. Wink

fart

So far doing well on that. But there are times, I'm bedridden even with the tendor care. BUT

I'm not ready to stop or forget about sex yet. Shit I'm only 55. W00t W00t W00t


04/26/2012 05:59 PM
mem6526

RW, Okay...somehow talking about sex and farts in the same sentence is just not right! Leave it to you! lol Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

04/26/2012 06:08 PM
Julzy
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I can imagine it happening!!!! .......especially with this condition! How embarrassing!!!

Shocked Shocked Dizzy


04/26/2012 06:10 PM
mem6526

Julzy, Those that fart together...stay together! lol Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing
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