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04/13/2012 08:44 PM
bc1028
bc1028
 
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Everytime I have something big going on or something planned, fibro seems to rear its ugly head to remind me it is here for good. In the past month I have had 2 trips, my oldest daughter's prom, and a few other things going on. I seem to be dead on my feet (actually dead on swollen feet) I am tired and hurt more right now. I know that having "something big" can trigger the fibro but I wish it would wait until things slow down before it blows up on me. It is irritating to me that if I do something, it takes me twice or three times as long to recover as it should. Does anyone else notice this pattern? I know taking it slower would help but sometimes life just does not let you do that, how do you cope?
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04/13/2012 08:49 PM  Top
MoiraWolf
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I think it's the stress that triggers the flaring when we have something going on. It's a self-perpetuating cycle. I have this big event coming up. I'm worried will the fibro flare on me while I've got this event going on. The worry triggers stress and the stress triggers a Flare, so I've done it to myself with the worry and stress. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.

I would suggest trying to stay calm and not worry (I know that's impossible, but still try!). Take time to meditate, or just sit in the morning with a cup of coffee on the porch and take a few minutes to relax before the start of your full day with it's event you're worried about. Take a moment to BREATHE. It may not help, but it certainly won't hurt!

I am not a medical doctor and any medical opinion I give is based on personal experience and/or research. It is not intended to suppliment or replace your doctor. Follow at your own risk.

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Dx: Fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue syndrome, obstructive sleep apnea, restless leg syndrome, degnerative joint disease, hypertension, diabetes type II, irritable bowel syndrome, plantar fasciitis, reactive airway disease, chronic allergies, hashimoto's disease, TMJ, morbid obesity, major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, seasonal affective disorder

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04/13/2012 09:01 PM  Top
mabri
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bc,

I do agree. It does seem to flare up when there are important things going on. I personally think that the anxiety or stress leading up to the event is what pushes it to come on. Either that or just luck..LOL I do know that it is when it is most opportune..I'm not sure when a good time is...but I do know when it's not. I hope that things will get better for you. HUGS

Please do not take anything I say as medical advice. I am not a doctor.

**Becky**

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04/13/2012 11:43 PM  Top
ushie
 
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Meditation/relaxation can help, said the woman who slept most of the day because work stress beat her up this week.

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04/14/2012 06:31 AM  Top
MoiraWolf
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Meditation IS great Ushie. I should do it more often. I got out of practice when I was a truck driver. No place quiet and calm enough when you live in a 5x8 foot living space with another person!
I am not a medical doctor and any medical opinion I give is based on personal experience and/or research. It is not intended to suppliment or replace your doctor. Follow at your own risk.

Gabapentin 600mg, tid
Tramadol 50mg, bid
Enalapril 10mg
Metoprolol ER 50mg
Citalopram 40mg
Levothyroid 125mcg
Cyclobenzaprine 10mg
Hydroxyzine 25mg
Carbidopa/Levadopa 25/100mg
Fish Oil Omega 3 - 1400mg
multi-vitamin pack
Vitamin C 500mg
Vitamin D3 50,000units, once a week

Dx: Fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue syndrome, obstructive sleep apnea, restless leg syndrome, degnerative joint disease, hypertension, diabetes type II, irritable bowel syndrome, plantar fasciitis, reactive airway disease, chronic allergies, hashimoto's disease, TMJ, morbid obesity, major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, seasonal affective disorder

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04/14/2012 06:56 AM  Top
Montag
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Remembering to breathe is terribly important!!

When an event is planned ahead of time I always tell whoever is having the event - `I`ll be there, but if I can`t I will give you as much notice as possible.`

This way the stress of HAVING to be there is lessoned b/c I have an out should i need to take it.

If i can`t make the event at least i was honest from the start & don`t have to climb into a guilt box....no no no!!!

If i do make it to the event i always have my own tranportation and again i make it known to the host/hostess I`m there to make an appearance & will stay as long as i can.

Sometimes I end up staying for a few hours, b/c the pressure of HAVING to stay is off.

this helps me alot.....!

I share from my experiences Only- I am not a medical or legal professional.

"Some of our greatest victories come from knowing when to retreat." author unknown

"Everyday is exactly the same but different..."

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04/14/2012 08:25 AM  Top
Adewyn
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i jusy got home from my fathers wednesday.... and all i can say is i am de stressing and it hurts LOL....i did stuff yesterday but i cant get out of my own way today lol..oh well ..shrugs always later or tomorrow lol

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04/14/2012 08:29 AM  Top
livewithhope
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I know exactly what you mean! I believe it's the added stress, too. I just take a day or two to relax and plan to do nothing....I love days when I can do nothing!!

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04/14/2012 09:25 AM  Top
girlfriend
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I've notice the same thing.. something important or exciting coming up and wham.. here we go again...

Adewyn, glad you are back safely with your family... rest and relax!

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04/14/2012 06:21 PM  Top
bc1028
bc1028
 
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I successfully got my daughter off to prom tonight after a LONG day of hair, make up and pictures. I am done-stick a fork in me. My body feels like it was hit by an 18 wheeler and they backed up and did it agian. If I don't have to stand on my feet for the next 24 hours, I will be happy. OH, and on top of everything, I got up at 6 this morning and went to wake all the kids up for school. One of my daughters finally to me "Mom, it is Saturday-leave me alone!!!
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