Fibromyalgia Support Group

I dont know what is wrong with me today! Im actually having quite a good pain day (good pain? does that make sense?) but i feel so sad. It started yesterday, i was a bit quiet, sad & emotional but it got better as the day went on. Today is a different story. I just feel so fed up! I'm crying at the drop of a hat, when im alone i want company, when ive got company i want to be on my own. Everyone & everything are getting on my nerves. I just cannot be arsed with anything. I have so much to do & cant be bothered! I have bills that need paying, a home that needs tidying & cleaning, ironing that needs doing but i cant find the strength to do any of them. The bills wouldnt be too difficult as theres only a couple but it involves phoning people Whenever i phone people i dont know the trouble starts! I cant get my words out, i cant understand what they are saying Aaaaaargh!!!!! Ive just had enough..

I'm so sorry you're having a bad day. I can understand how you feel - I had a day like that yesterday. Maybe you just need to do something fun - forget about everything you need to do and just relax. hee hee - that's what I'm doing today! I hope your day gets better!

Do you have more days like this or do you have more good days? I am with you today. I have those days way to often. It is terrible when the little things like paying a bill is such a big project. Have you tried doing something that takes little effort but makes you happy? I had a rough night last night..plus I am out of my pain meds and I am really down and in a ton of pain, so i am staying on this site all day!!!! I am hanging out with my kids in my room, enjoying them and reading posts. It at least helps me forget about the pain a bit.

We all have these days there's nothing wrong with you. It's okay and tomorrow will be better. Have some ice cream or something that makes you smile.

I had one of those days yesterday and am taking it easy today. I hope you feel better soon. Have you tried taking a long bubblebath or anything to pamper yourself? Perhaps that might help? Usually I am like you said, either am lonely or want to be left alone. I think it's all a part of this horrible condition we have to live with. Keep telling yourself tomorrow will be better.

Hugs,

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{{{emma}}} I m sorry you re having a rough stretch here recently.

Like others said , do something special for yourself or when I get in your position, I choose ONE thing to tackle. Once it is done, I ll try a second one etc.

Most times this works for me but when it doesn t I just sit with a good book or even take a nap...the rest of the world be darned (as far as I m concerned right then.)

Marilyn

Thank you all for your support.

Im feeling a bit better today, my friend popped round earlier so we had a great girlie gossip & i went to watch her daughters swimming lesson so that helped.

Im thinking tomorrow is a day at the shops, im sure that'll cheer me up a bit! And saturday is mine & OH's 2nd anniversary...diamonds always cheer me up!!!

Thanks again, hope you're all well {{{hugs}}}

Diamonds are a girl's best friend!

These days come and go, Emma. Just keep your chin up and know that tomorrow will be a better day.

Have you tried online banking to pay your bills? I hate talking to people on the phone, and I love online banking. It simplifies the process.

I also have to agree with Auntie's idea. Choose one thing, get it done, then move on to the next. I forget this a lot, but when I apply it, it always works.

Chin up, sweety. You'll be okay.

Emma, I hope you have a wonderful anniversary and the least you deserve is diamonds. I hope he gets those, plus roses, chocolates, candles, all the things girls love! I'm glad you are feeling better!

*hugs*