Stupid (unless you're talking about your doctor) Crazy (I'm really guilty of using this one) Mess (when referring to anything except your OWN house) Dumb (see above) Retarded I know how you feel (no, you don't!) That's nothing, I.... (yes, it is something!) I know we're all guilty of using these words and phrases but they can cause reactions from anger to intense sadness. "That's nothing" is particularly a really hurtful term...it's so dismissive of another's experiences and pain. Anytime you read something that makes you angry in this forum, feel free to write a scathing reply...but then read it to yourself several times, then DELETE IT and start again. Remember my friends that this is a support group. We support others here, we don't tear them down. No matter how "severe" your doctor says your case or your pain is, remember the rest of the group is also in a great deal of pain--you might not believe it's as severe as yours, but it's pain nevertheless. Play nice or take your toys and find another support group. Yes, today I am the bad  cop of this support group. I'm allowed...I'm a Group Leader. If you disagree with me, feel free to PM Lori or Roy and complain. Feel free to add the words or phrases that you find hurtful, I for one don't want to hurt anyone accidentally. Love & hugs, rayn
I am not a medical professional so please exercise common sense when it comes to my advice.
I am also NOT a lawyer so exercise common sense when it comes to my advice.
I was a bookseller so you can trust my advice regarding books :)
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"When I was diagnosed about 18 months ago with fibromyalgia, I didn't know where to turn. I got on my computer and looked for a support group where I could talk to other people with the same disease and get some help...Information, suggestions, mostly just what I can do now that I have this.....disorder/disease/syndrome...I didn't even know what to call it. I found MDJ, and yes, there was a support group for fibro. I started a post, and figured I would never get an answer. However, very quickly I was welcomed in, and became really involved in the group. I received help, support, friendship and the feeling of being truly cared about by these strangers who had become like family to me. Now, I have been here for about a year and a half...I have become a group leader, and love every minute of it. It is so wonderful to be able to help others. I still receive help and answers from the members in this group. The fibromyalgia is where I go to help, support, listen, care and even laugh. I don't know what I would do without this group." (mabri)
I'm hilarious in my own mind 
