Why dont you do something just for you? Instead of having a party that you wouldn't want to go to anyway you go and get your hair done and shopping for new clothing, Graduate going to college clothing, and new grown up makeup too, maybe even get yourt make up done by a professional so that hyou can learn the new products and the new styles? Or if you aren't into that but you are into books Splurge at Amazon, maybe get a Kindle and load her up with your favorite authors. My point is, do something for yourself....Something that would be meaningful just for you. I do not blame you one bit for noty weanting to go to graduation. Its usually kind of tawdry with whistle and cat calls and stuff like that....always loud and if you aren't popular then there is only your parents clapping. I did not go to mine and never regretted it. I played in the orchestra the three years before and saw what went on. So if you don't want to go then don't go. and if you don't have anyone you want to invite to a party that you don't want to go to anyway then don't have the party....Use the money for something you would like. That would be my vote. But the key is will you be feeling sorry for yourself the day of graduation? Because then you can't win. You have to come to a resolution and be happy with your decisions whichever way they go. I pray you come to a resolution that will make you happy. hugs Natty Post edited by: Natalia5150, at: 05/16/2010 10:12 AM gentle hugs and a peck on the cheek,
Natty
I am an RN with a current license since 1984....sheesh that's a long time....but that doesn't mean I am a DOCTOR
I dispense advice freely but you should take it with a grain of salt and do your homework and check with your doctor.
He gets paid more so he must know more. Right?
I am truly sorry your are reading my post, because it means you are here at MD Junction instead of out skydiving or deep sea treasure hunting or climbing Mount Kilimanjaro.......
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...2 I also agree with do what you think is celebrating go out to dinner with your parents to one of your favorite resturants or have mom and dad get chinese and eat with chopstick (always a good laugh)i can remember not wanting a party but mom gave it anyways... went to the graduation and it ended up being the hotttest day of the year..I bought myself a gold watch that was my present to myself for graduating and when i graduated college I bought a ring for graduating college ( 4months pregnant planning a wedding graduating college and moving in to my new apartment ) lol i deserved the ring