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stillhopeful Posts: 4725
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To my wonderful group leaders, Karen, and Missy, I give a very sweet thank you for moving this to another thread. I am under the influence of night meds, but I am trying very consciouly to send this message. I want to thank Karen and Missy from the bottom of my heart. I am very said, we have lost a very special man.I just still cannot believe it. I don't want to go up to the casket, because it will make it so real to me, and I want him back. He was so much fun, kind, always a gentleman. Did the dishes every day for my dear mother in law, made the ice for her, turned the calendar everyday. Did it all, it is just a terrific loss. He is going to be laid out for 8 hours (wife has changed her mind several times) so what I did, was go to our favorie florist, and we bought a afghan, with an angel on it with a beautiful saying on it. They said her, at these funeral home, the spread them out with the flowers on a stand. It is so prety, and a reminder of how much she loved her husband Bob. All the flowers will get dumped in the garbage. I wish she, or she could ask someone to do it, I would do it for him. Take them apart and take them to nursing homes or people in the hospital that don't get company. I've seen that happen before, and the people just love it and get a huge smile on their face. I'm getting very sleepy so should head for bed, so we can be at the funeral home a 1 pm, about 40 minutes from here. Thanks again from the bottom of my heart. I love that you care and consider my feelings. It means more than you could ever know. Thank you for doing this for me, and being the special sisters that I have. Much love and soooooo many big hugs~ your sad, depressed, mom, grandma, sister, friend, and gems~ Sissy Chrissy (aka Christine, Chris) which ever name you like best for me. Nigty night, sleep tight. The kids have asked us to watch the girls, so you may not hear from me until Tuesday or later. Depends how exhausted I am after the funeral, and ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Christine
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I am not a doctor, but I sure do make a lot of visits to them. Any information discussed with you, is just my personal experience or information givn to me. I am not your doctor, please call him/her if you are having problems.
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