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11/15/2010 02:05 PM
Mtroup
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This makes me happy, support groups.

Anyway, I am a full time employee at McDonald's in Manchester Pennsylvania. I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 1998 when I was 18. Docs have been treating me with Gabapentin, Naproxen, and sleeping pills. (among many other meds like vitamins and adderall) Now that I have health insurance, I finally get to see a rheumatologist in december, in hopes of finding a treatment for the pain. It's a terrible struggle to work my full shift without wanting to cry out in pain. I am grateful that all my co-workers understand completely and don't get too irritated when I slow down after 5 straight hours. The fry station really kicks my butt! By the end of the day, I feel like I've been hit by a Mack Truck a few times then thrown off a cliff. Most days, I am too tired to cook dinner for my family and we end up eating soup and sandwiches or frozen pizza and salads. My housework has also suffered greatly. I have about 6 loads of laundry to do (folding it tears my back up), I sadly can't remember the last time I scrubbed my bathroom or kitchen floor. I'm glad that I have kids and I can tell them what to do though. Haha, my little butlers and maid. Laughing I feel bad asking my husband for help because he works a full time job, third shift, and has back problems also. We thinks it's just a pulled muscle or a pinched nerve.

Anyway, I have rested long enough and must feed my little housekeepers.

Post edited by: Mtroup, at: 11/15/2010 02:11 PM

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11/16/2010 11:09 AM  Top
debhurts
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Smile hi how are you today? i hope thid finds you well. pls. write me anytime, your friend debi warm gentle hugs
i am not a medical professional or a counselor, please seek a doctors opinion, and seek professional counseling, my opinions are my own and not professional, please use common sense and get appropriate care by a professional. Thanks i am not being rude just responsible. Thanks Debi

11/30/2010 11:16 AM  Top
fluffyluggage
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Hi Mtroup,

Welcome to the forum. I can't imagine having to work a full-time job with that kind of pain. If you're taking those meds and still in a lot of pain, it may be time to consider a different FMS medication (Neurontin is old-school, ya know? lol). There are many new ones out now to consider, so it may not be a bad idea to think about adding something else to your pharmacopia of meds.

However, you can also teach your children how to do other things that are terribly painful for you, like the laundry folding, and scrubbing. Heck, give them a small weekly or monthly allowance, if you can afford it. The lessening of your pain would totally be worth it! Wink

For your husband, I would recommend that he does consider going to a doctor about his back pain, if he hasn't. If the pain persists longer than a week or two, it's best to see if it's more than just a pinched nerve or a pulled muscle. Even a pinched nerve can mean serious issues, because that usually means that there's something wrong, and an MRI might be in order. He may be doing more harm than good to continue working, and ultimately (worse case scenario, but it CAN happen) he could end up paralyzed. You always hope that doesn't happen, but ignoring it doesn't mean it won't...

Anyway, I hope you're finding this forum helpful and supportive. I hope you'll hang around and talk about anything you feel you need to, vent, ask questions, whatever, whenever! I also hope this finds you feeling well today, and in no pain!

Hugs,

jen Smile

Just because it's impossible doesn't mean it can't happen.

I'm not a doc, so anything I say is my opinion only. Nothing I say is meant as offense, I offer what I can as help. I believe in educating myself on all my medical issues and being my own advocate, for no one else with do that on my behalf. I recommend we all do the same!

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Perhaps I truly am insane for expecting these docs to listen to me when I say the same things repeatedly to no avail? LOL. I am tired of seeking out new docs and getting the same result time and again...Forgive me if I seem bitter some days.

Something has changed within me/Something is not the same/I'm through with playing by/The rules of someone else's game/Too late for second-guessing/Too late to go back to sleep/It's time to trust my instincts/Close my eyes and leap...I'm through accepting limits/Cuz someone says they're so/Some things I can not change/But till I try I'll never know/Too long I've been afraid of/Losing love I guess I lost/Well if that's love/It comes at much too high a cost/I'd sooner buy Defying Gravity/Kiss me good-bye I'm Defying Gravity/I think I'll try Defying Gravity/And you won't bring me down...
--Defying Gravity (Glee Cast version)

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