Emotional Abuse Support Group

WandaLynn, I am so sorry he behaved that way during your dad's funeral. That was a total lack of respect for you. I have never been inside a Jewish or Hindu temple before either, but I couldn't imagine going into one, especially for something like a funeral, and laughing at all the things I didn't understand. Even toddlers have better manners than that and to be honest, it's not a question of manners. It's a matter of respect.

Thanks, I think you meant me although who knows who else has that same story. I can't believe how similar abusive behavior is across the board. Just total lack of respect for others

Okay, u made a strong point here;thats why I had to live my "ex." Everything was always his way and then he had enough nerve to say that everything always had to be my way. But, thats what abusers do.

Thanks for this point; when I have hard times I am going to revisit this post.

Hugs Doris

My ex wouldn't even attend my grandmamas funeral I know that it was out of state but she lived with us at the time, I felt horrible that he wouldn't go but we were half way split by the time I finally went to it. I think it was the being of finding me.

EA's always seem to compare their BEST with their victim's WORSE!

Oh I can soooo relate to this!

Well Meg, that's a pretty good list! Hits the EA nail right on the head. But there is 1 more benefit.

*You get to be superior in EVERY way

You are more intelligent, You handle your emotions better, you act better in public, You are more capable, You are more competent, Your judgement is better, Your sense of decor and clothing is better, You know what is best for everyone.

Oh YA on more thing:

*You are psychic

You know what everyone is really thinking, You know what everyone is really feeling. They are just confused. But thankfully YOU are there to straighten them out.

WOW Secret Life, I guess "inferior minds" think alike. LOL I was typing that while you posted.

LOL!

So true.