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05/15/2008 18:08
mamanordy
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 I seem to not be able to do anything right in his eyes. What astounds me is we have been married for 32 yrs and while we have always had our ups and downs, he has never been this bad to me. He yells at me so loudly for the tiniest things and he never apologizes and then he wonders why I dont want to do anything with him.

I know he must be sick of all of my illnesses. He told me so tonight he is sick of hearing about them. That really hurt me because I dont have a lot of friends and I was relying on him to be my friend as well as my husband. I told him I dont want him to fix me just listen. He says I am always complaining or bitching. I agree I do complain somewhat a lot sometimes but here is the kicker, so does he! So iguess it is alright for him to but not me. I am very upset tonight. I just want to run away.

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05/27/2008 10:24
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 I am so sorry for what you are going through. It must be hard when you have put your faith into someone for so long. What illnesses are you dealing with? It sometimes really does help just to have someone to talk to about everything.
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06/21/2008 16:52
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 i apologize that you are going through that. sometimes just listening is the best thing that they can do but do not even do it.

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06/22/2008 16:59
mamanordy
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 My profile says it all. I have so many things I struggle with every day. Thank you all for responding. Just nice to read other ppls posts.
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06/26/2008 12:45
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 "He yells at me so loudly for the tiniest things and he never apologizes and then he wonders why I dont want to do anything with him."

I've been here. The words don't go away just because he wants them to...they linger and cause pain long after the air settles. My heart goes out to you, and I wish you the best in your situation.

Niki C.

"Peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work; it means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart."
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06/27/2008 08:02
mamanordy
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 Thank you Niki and everyone. There are days when we get along beautifully, he is nice, funny, caring. But one little thing just sets him off. Like the crackers were stale he tried to eat last night, and he blamed me for not sealing the bag tightly enough, he said i needed to be more careful when I do things. THEY ARE CRACKERS. I just ignored him. That is what I have been doing lately when I hear his snide remarks, just act like I didnt even hear him.

We will just keep on keeping on though!

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06/27/2008 08:22
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 Sorry to hear that mama- it is funny because I just wrote a journal entry about that. I hope things get better. I guess they may not truly understand what we struggle with daily. THat's right, just keep posting.

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06/27/2008 11:03
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 I once got reamed out for ordering a pizza with tomatoes on it, so I can completely identify with you about the crackers!
Niki C.

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06/27/2008 13:48
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 You said, "There are days when we get along beautifully, he is nice, funny, caring. But one little thing just sets him off." I think we can all completely identify. The time we get along beautifully with these 'men' is called the "honeymoon period." However, the honeymoon can be short lived. Last week, I ordered pizza at work and brought home leftovers. Apparently, my husband claimed the pizza for himself without telling me. When I took a slice for lunch the following day, he yelled at me and threw the rest of the pizza at the window. Like you mamanordy, I also just ignore him and turn away.

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06/29/2008 12:12
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 I got reamed last night in the car because we were at a 4 way stop and the person to our right DID stop first and they started to go, well so did we. I said UH he was first. He started yelling at me that I never side with him, I need to pay attention and get my head out of my ass. I was completely silent. Didnt say a thing. We stopped at Home Depot and then got Subs at Subway. This was at about 7 at night. He is always bitching when I dont get dinner ready by 7, cause he gets heartburn he says if he eats after 7. Anyway the subs were his idea. And calmly on the way home, I said sure do hope you can get your sandwich down without making yourself sick. Of course I opened up a can of worms, he asked me why do I want to start an argument, now do I know why he is always mad at me. I SNAPPED. I told him he makes me feel like a piece of dirt under his feet, and I say what I say because I have to get back somehow. I told him he makes me feel stupid, unwanted and ugly. He didnt say anything. So far he has been really nice. It wont last though. But I will take what I can .
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