yes whenever i say that I work the equivalent of two fulltime jobs at home he always says"I dont care because we need money!"he puts me down again and again because i am not getting a paycheck.I also get child support from my first marriage and he is blind to the fact that i pay many bills and I also take care of our kids insurance.Plus I take care of everything regarding the kids(dressing them,bathing them,feeding them...there is no partnership there.I do all the house chores,he never even takes out the garbage,and I do all the heavy lawn work.Our lawn mower is very heavy and it is so rough on me but he wont do it.plus I am his personal secretary for his side business. i have to take care of everything basicazlly because he is not legal in this country. I do all the bills and have to make all the phone calls etc.fill out all the job applications for him.I am basically like a single mom but I dont have a job.Howver in his eyes im a terrible wife.Go figure! Hope is the last one to die...
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