Emotional Abuse Support Group

Apparently his e-mail is broken.

Timing is suspect as well. Yesterday in mediation he offered me the severely upside down house in foreclosure that the mortgage company changed the locks on and all of the trash left behind if I just sign off on 50/50 custody and zero child support...today the house has apparently been broken into, he needs to go fill out a police report and will be late picking up the boys.

1.) I am done with the house...don't care, and he knows that I am done and don't care as far as I am concerned it's the bank's problem now..why is the bank/property preservation company not dealing with the break in?

2.)I was all done with the conversation and said ok when he got as far as saying he was going to be late. He had to explain why he was late. I said ok again, then he had to recap twice until I finally said OK BYE and hung up.

3.) Mr. Weak, Limpy, Weepy and in Agony at mediation yesterday sounded upbeat and happy on the phone today.

Break ins on abandoned homes is a problem in the area..if it did happen I am surprised it took this long. Which also makes the timing suspect.

I also think it's funny how he has refused to text me since he announced that he was letting Sprint turn off the cell phones because he couldn't afford it anymore....my cell phone is still in service and I know he would continue to use his until it was shut off if he was truly going cell phone free...I am assuming that he just went to another contract with new phones/numbers.

That's all...wanted to write to document it/vent/ sort out the insanity of it all.

I am also wondering how the police were able to track him down...especially if he isn't using his cell phone which was his primary number. The phone at the GF's house is still under the dead father's name...maybe the police dept is more resourceful than I give them credit for....

You're right, it's all pretty suspicious with interesting timing.

Sheriff's dept just called me...sounds like someone is trying to pull some insurance fraud....said all of his business tools were there(they weren't they are all in the work trailer sitting in his GF's driveway or sold by him at this point..I am suing for them in the divorce BTW and he offered them to me yesterday as well and I did not accept since he needs them to earn an income(now they are gone...convenient) and he is claiming that an old engine and the remainder of the appliances(stove, dishwasher, etc) were stolen. Not sure the mortgage company is insuring the contents at this point(our policy ran out in December) his business tools may still be covered under the business policy....my abuser also told the officer that I may have given someone permission to remove items, I explained that I haven't been there in months,gave no one permission, he was with me when I took the last of the items I have and he was the last one to remove things from the property.

Make sure to document everything you can about this situation, particularly how he offered you the tools to have them "stolen" a day or two later, the calls from the sheriff's dept, etc. This could all be very important (and might really help you if they ever try to do a discovery or get an idea of his character...)

S-E-T U-P.

You should call the insurance company and inform them of the missing details. Also, keep detailed records of this incident because it will show the court and the judge the character of this man.

Just e-mailed my lawyer the entire story.

Good! Maybe he can get the police report too for your file.

I just can't get over how friggin' bold he is...and the timing in which he does things either proves he is an absolute idiot or karma is super quick to slap him upside the head....3 weeks to destroy my car..(also potential insurance fraud) and now this...24 hours later.

Hey, let him hang himself. Just document all the supporting evidence (and make sure you document the date/time things happened and what you remember being said as soon as you can so you don't forget anything). Then you can just sit back with your popcorn and watch him screw himself. His selfishness, his sense of entitlement, and his greed will bite him in the ass one way or another one of these days.