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Welcome! There are many nice people to chat with here. You sound like you are really struggling and fortunately for you, we've all been there and understand completely. You can look up more information about me on the leader page and through past messages, but this is my own personal advice, you have to do what is best for you. I would now knowing what I know from my past experiences, I would leave this man immediately and never speak to or see him again. Avoid him, don't answer the phone, tell him to not call or come by, don't answer the door. Let your family, friends, neighbors (if in an apt) know that you don't want this man around. You have to cut the ties and he won't like it but this is what's best for you, not him. It's time to get selfish and protective of YOU! Please tell me there are no children involved. Don't date anyone else either. You need some time on your own, growing, healing, learning, etc. Read self help books, go to growth classes, try a new therapy that I have found has helped me tremendously called EMDR, you can google it and find out if someone in your area offers it. Traditional therapy/counseling didn't work for me, it only made me feel worse. I have really benefitted from EMDR. Again, just a suggestion. Do you workout or belong to a gym? Get involved in other activities and most importantly take care of yourself. Will keep you in my prayers. Jen |
