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YES!! Clap he worked last night...and he likes it. Its easy 300 a week, now I have to call SSI tomorrow morning so he gets no check at the end of the month. He is very happy to be a working class hero...LOL...he even said I can ride with him and throw papers in the boxes ..LOL..,.no, I want him to learn independence from us...I am very happy to see this improvement in him..Bless you and your family Always!!

Patty

Patty, that's wonderful news!

Clap, you're very wise to just let him learn things on his own. It's so hard to do because they stumble and fall so much and have to suffer the consequences, but it's much easier on your serenity.

My vent for the day...just a tired aching day..see rheumy doc tomorrow..and I quit taking Gabapentin..he is going to be mad , but tough..it was given me small petty mall seizures ..I refuse to take and kind of medication that does that to me, not fair!!

Post edited by: Peace77, at: 04/26/2012 01:30 PM

Patty, that's wonderful your son is working!!! I know you're a very proud Mom!

Hope your appointment goes well today.

My vent, Doctors pushing surgery. No thank you!!!!! I'll work on losing weight in hoping it'll help get rid of the problem I'm having. Super early mornings for me from now on. It worked before, it should work again. I can hope anyways! GBHugs, Donna

My son told me my husband is talking about me behind my back!!

I gave him the silent treatment tonight when he came home from work. I am so angry at him!! I use to like to go to the casino and play the slots, way back when we were both working. I would only go in the day or early in the morning.

He told my son, I bet she is going to the casino spending money.

WHAT MONEY!!! LOL..IF I am to be blamed for it I just may go. But I have to get the dog his shots on Monday and see my Dr on Wed, or fri..I will have to see in my calendar. I have been inside for so long I look pale, and I get accused of something I didn't do and haven't done since before my sister passed away, like in the summer of last year and only played the dime slots...oh my I may have won 20 for gas in my car!! But I'm hiding money now...what a bunch of crap!!! I'm going to church tomorrow to pray on this, I don't know how much more I can take...I really needed this from him..NO!!!

Oh no, Patty! That's terrible! You know the saying, "Those who are accusing, are those who are doing!" They need to get over themselves and not be blaming you on something that you're not doing. Bad them! ((((((Hugs)))))) Donna

New one on me...I don't get it..I'm beginning to feel not wanted here at all. Oh, NO unless I'm working like a good wife should do. I have been working for the last 40 years of my life. My husband half that time, without being a house Dad, no that was my job too. Sometimes I held 2 full time jobs just to make the bills.

Funny, I had to see my Rheumy doc last week, my time was for 2thirty pm and I didn't see the doc until 5 pm..but he is good and I waited. Then i had to drive to my pharmacist to get med filled , so I got home around 7pm. He attacks me as soon as i walk in the door..where in the H.. have you been? My son said Dad I already told you , she went to the doctor. I stood there with my mouth open..ah duh!!! I said where did you think I went? He said I have never trusted you since the day I married you. My heart sank..how dare him, I have forgave him for 4 affairs in the past 33 years. Is he feeling guilt, or just a jealous A..Hole?? I am livid today, I keep thinking back to the beginning of our marriage, how I took beatings for 7-8 years. Now after those years after I punched back..he stopped and realized I grew up with 4 brothers. He never has touched me since I knocked his teeth out with one punch...LOL...that was nothing compared to what he put me through.

Vent over..I need to leave, but don't know how I will do this..

God , Help me...I'm to weak to help myself now, I give up hope!

Patty, don't give up! That's an awful lot of bad things to go through, but when you have a long term marriage, a lot of painful things have happened so I know what you're saying.

I didn't realize he'd had 4 affairs so he probably finds it hard to believe that you could be faithful to him all these years since he wasn't capable of it.

I hope things work out for you. (((((((((((HUGS AND PRAYERS)))))))))))

Thank you , Angela

I will probably hang in there...He had 2 affairs, got carried away...but he is a big flirt...so I count them as two more

Still mad at him..but just leaving it be...I have bigger things on my mind for now...LOL

HUGS....Patty

Patty, I'm so sorry he's accusing you of this. You're a wonderful person. That's horrible he had those affairs, and he's accusing you, shame on him. I'd be furious, with him. Punch him again! lol Just kidding, but he has it coming to him if he keeps that up. We're all here for you, and got prayers going for you. GBHugs, Donna