Dysfunctional Families Online Support Group

You have to admit it was funny , mostly the part with the joint for your grandma...lol...that would help anyones pain..i think...LMAO...thanks...that story was so neat..sounds like you had a pretty good week end...Good for you!!!

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Patty

Jaye, it sounds like you had a very nice Thanksgiving except for getting hurt. Now you have something to look forward to with your friend coming back to visit. Is Melissa your friend who had the baby?

I agree with Patty. I also chuckled about what was put in grandma's cigarette pack. That was funny since it's nothing that will really hurt her. I'm going to guess she'll be able to tell the difference as soon as she lights up. Who knows? Maybe she'll enjoy it!

Hi sorry I've been gone...busy with Job tired not wanting to write... my niece Kimm is in Jail again she took a pill & it came out to be positive for drugs. they arrested her right before she was going to court to get married... & then I just saw her fiance's picture on the police mug shots for driving under suspended license & control substance without a prescription. he was 8 days from getting his license back.... Jaye

That's okay, Jaye. Sorry to hear your niece is in jail again, and her fiance too. Wow, that's aweful. Hope they both get their act together, not a good way to start their lives. Hugs, Donna

Jaye, is that your neice who was the mother to the little baby that passed on? Has she ever gone to treatment for her drug and alcohol problems or was she just sent to prison and given no rehab?

How are things going for you? Do you like your job? How are you and Chris doing?

Hey I decided to use my old post. when my parents place had no tenants just a few weeks ago i helped my sister out doing stuff but I stopped because I just couldn't do anymore thinking of dad laying there on the dirty floor it was ground in it took muscle power... to get it out... well I told mom that I still was felt sad dad died.... she told me that I have to move on that dad is died 7 years ago & I have to accept it.... well I said ok then I won't talk to you about him.... anymore.... I said I know he died but I miss him still... she told me i don't care if it takes 10 years you do what you need too do...

so I bought a car (mom help) in May a few days later i found out my tires are bald the front ones.... but you see they are DUBS that's what people call it done her in Florida they are performance tires 18inch the tire is thinner than the regular tires you buy... they wear down faster... I need Rims that are normal ones that go on there & regular tires tooo...

I heard my Great niece was down so I told my nephew Andy it would be great that if you could bring London over to See Great Grandma because she has something for her & I would come too... so we set it up today at 2p ... well when it rains I can't drive that good because there is no traction on my front tired I already fished tailed once that scared me... Andy Called my brother Alan & his wife Deb came over. & Andy's sister Kimm was suppose too but couldn't....

I couldn't make it because I don't want to cause an accident.... I didn't tell him to make a call to my brother I was just saying us... you see the past 3 times London has down His sister Krissy was suppose to come over & mom was waiting...

my mom hasn't been in good health he blood pressure is high she's suppose to get a stress test done the one you don't need to walk & a electrocardiogram & to see how much her artery is block in her neck...

so my sister calls me from work (her place of work) telling me that mom is all stressed out & he blood pressure is high & she'll have a heart attack because I asked for this party & mom never wanted it & (OMG) Kimm might come over (me being scarscatic)I know it isn't spelled right... because Kimm has been in trouble stealing, & trying to buy a gun for her stepbrother that is a felon....

I told her that I have bald tires I couldn't make it... I would've gotten in an accident...

I have to wait to get the rims down in Ft Lauderdale because they are the cheapest at the junk yard.... & Chris is working on Shakespeare (every year he is in this group that puts on a Shakespeare play for free.... he does sound for it... so for a week he was at rehearsals until late at night & then the Show is on from July 12 to July 15th then on July 19th to July 22 then he is over, hopefully he can do it soon...

my sister never calls she told me once that she doesn't need to hold my hand... she doesn't want to hear it... then instead of calling me & asking why I couldn't make it. she like mom has been stressing & her high blood pressure is going through the roof she didn't want the party & you did.... & you can't make it again... I've been having a sinus headache for a week & I had to go to work & it hurt like hell & finally I remembered that I could rinse my nose out with solution (don't ever use tap water some woman died cuz bacteria got into her brain & died) well it finally help I don't have a headache...

all i wanted was for them to see mom & London because she isn't feeling good... I told my sister Debbie I said i have bald tires I can't go down maybe if you called you would know I said I don't want to fight I can't get down to the junk yard if you find cheaper rims you tell me & then I will buy them or I would've been there. I'm already upset because I missed Chris couldn't bring me down because he has to bring everything back from the park that is his so I wouldn't fit, I wanted to see the play but was sick or had to get up early to go to work....

tomorrow is 6 Years with Chris... yay longest relationship I've had this is how good memory I have 7 years since I had last dinner with my dad & mom... July 23rd & my nephew Andy's Birthday is the July 25th then my Dad died of a massive heart attack 7 years ago July 26th around I think 10:30am. my Uncle his brother-in-law George died of a massive heart attack July 15th 1984 my Niece Kimm's birthday is July 12th 1983 & her mom died July 1st 2006 of cancer.

that's how I remember certain things have happened.... so I write in a journal... but I always have had a great memory because I'm trying to make up what I've lost with my Cerebral Palsy in my right side. i can't feel well my If I put money in my hand I don't know I lost it I squeezed Chris's finger & didn't know it was so tight that it hurt him.... I feel like I just don't understand things like some people would get it...

I don't know my emotions are so high that I hyperventilate when I'm pis*ed I cry I can't hide my feelings anymore.... I told mom when you die we won't talk to each other because you keep us in line or just me because nobody really knows how I feel about things.... well that's it sorry so sad.... but I do love Chris he has put up with crap that no other man has... I'm on the right medicine & I'm better... but my emotions overwhelm me so much I talk or yell what I'm thinking & feeling because I can't keep it in.... Thanks Jaye

Oh I love my family with all my heart i feel like I'm getting ganged up on...... I always offer I always go when they need me.... I wouldn't trade them in but, what am I suppose to do when I'm having headaches everyday & have tires that are bald but can't find my way down there to get them...

Chris says he would buy them in a store locally I can't afford how much they are I want ones that don't have hubcaps because I always lose one or I just have 1 left... it a running joke with Chris his sister Lee & I about my cars....

Hi Jaye, your father and mine passed away nearly the same date, but mine passed several years before yours. It doesn't matter if it's 7 years or 17 years, there are just some peole we will always miss. Of course we have to move on and go about life, but we still wish they were here with us and there's nothing wrong with that. It shows we have emotions and are caring people.

I'm not sure I understand why everyone was upset. Is there a reason they didn't want to have a get-together with your nephew and his little girl? Was it only for an afternoon or will they be staying with your mother?

I know you care deeply about your family just from the things you've said in the past. Unfortunately there are misunderstandings and tiffs and it's upsetting. I'm sorry you had a rough day and I hope tomorrow is much better. ((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))

every time that she comes down Krissy my niece always says I will be over grandma so you can see her... then she never does. so on facebook I told Andy please go over.... they live with there mother (Andy's)i mean when she's down... I was suppose to go over but couldn't because of bald tires & rain.... my sister think it was me that made all these plans to have my brother his wife her mother Andy's mom & my sister's daughter & her boyfriend over & if Andy sister Kimm wanted to come she could.

I just said to come over not to invite everyone my sister was upset because I didn't make it because I never make it to family functions usually I have a headache or I got out of the hospital when they happen. so she is blaming me for everyone over & having mom's blood pressure go up because I told them to come over Andy & London... I'm tired of being blamed every time I don't go..

I found out that the steel belt is showing on my left rear tire Chris saw it.... so now I can't go far my house is 17 miles away from work & 7 miles away from work at Chris's house. but I miss my kitties & they aren't happy that I'm gone.....

Jaye, I hope you get the tire situation taken care of soon. It's so dangerous to drive with bad tires.

I can identify with not wanting to leave your pets alone. The only time mine are left by themselves is if we go on vacation and then we have someone come over and check on them a few times a day. It's probably a good thing that they're here because I've vacationed in some places where I wouldn't have wanted to come back home except that I miss my pets so much.