Drug Addiction Support Group

Ok so growing up I always knew my mom was on pain pills. but I never thought of her doing drugs witch is dump of me because my mom did drugs before i was born and her soon to be husband has also done drugs and is still is. anyway way over the last yeah my mom & Fred *my moms soon to be husband* have been telling crazy story that they belive is true like they thing my mom and him had a baby together when she was a 11 and my grandpants gave the baby to some family member and to make my mom and fred forget they gave them drugs. My Mom also belives My older brother jamie who dead the day he was born is still alive and that her father faked james death. They also claim that some one is messing with our family photos. Like a photo of my great grandfather they say its his smile but not his nose or his eyes. anyway the storys get crazyer As much as I love my mother i dont see my mom and fred much because its just hard. the one person i tell about any of this is my dad.

Wow!!! This must be so hard for you. It has to be scarey!!! I am sorry this is happening to your mom and you. Have you tried talking to your mom about this and telling her that you are worried because she is talking irrationally? maybe ask her to see a doctor. This is serious stuff. In my opinion they need help. You need help dealing with this. I think you have made a smart choice in staying away as much as possible. This would be very difficult for me. We are here for you. You are not alone.

Kris

First of all welcome to this group, we are happy you found us. What does your father say about all this. did you talk to your mom about it, did you ever tell her that what she has been saying is not true.

She needs to go see a therapist or a dr to find out what is wrong, she must be doing some really strong pain meds to hallucinate like that. You have to see if you can find her help, she doesn't have any kids to take care of, does she, It sounds like she is confused due to some mental disorder and you need to find her help or else she will get worse,

We are here for you, to keep you strong

rosejacklove, what is going on in your life, we are here to help you but you need to reach out. No one will ever judge you, we are here only to help you

thank u for your replise no i never told my mom i didnt belive her because i worry about her getting upset with me

don't worry about upsetting your mom, addiction is a serious condition...when I look at pictures of me when my addiction to pain pills and alcohol was at its highest, I looked terrible, my face and eyes all swollen, I ask my family now why didn't you tell me I looked so bad, they said they did and I didn't listen. I just wish I would have listened before I destroyed my health and my life. So be honest and see what happens, Your mom will of course deny it and blame you. But keep trying, I had my family pushing me to get clean after I hit bottom, they showed me how important I was to them, I just felt like dying, I was so scared to live w/o my drugs and alcohol.

So don't be scared of upsetting her, what is she doing to you, tell her...let us know how it goes....we are here to hold your hand through this hard time.............

Post edited by: anamore, at: 06/22/2012 05:43 AM

Sadly my mother pasto away yesturday

I ,on behalf of some of the other members here at MDJ and myself are sorry for the loss of your mother.

Our thoughts and prayers as well as support, are with you .

God Bless,

Ray

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Thank you

Rosejacklove. I am so so very sorry to here about your mom, it must be so painful, please reach out, we are here for you, don't suffer alone, I know what if feels like losing somebody you love, its so hard to deal with all the emotions you feel, at least you can look at her as finally finding peace, hope that helps, it sounds like she had a hard time w/ her addictions, now she doesn't need to keep trying to survive, she is at peace..I know that isn't much, it doesn't take the pain away, remember we are here for you, just reach out and you will find support.

You will be in my prayers, as well as your mother, again, I am so sorry for your loss...