Drug Addiction Support Group

I abused OC's for many years. No I think that you should get the tests. Make him prove to you that he is serious about this. Of course this is all just my opionion, but that's what I would do. If you every need someone to talk to, I'm just a message away!

So I guess that's it. His parents came home to find that someone had robbed them blind. All of his dad's guns were gone, his mom's laptop, all of the stuff from their safe and all of his daughter's, niece's, and nephew's games...all gone. No one can get a hold of him, and no one knows where he is.

Who am I kidding. I am falling apart here. I can't stop crying and I don't know what to do. I know on one level that no matter how much I love him, I have to walk away. on another level, I feel like I am abandoning him.

I understand that you feel like you are abandoning him, but you have to do what's best. I'm sorry that you are going through this and I wish that there was something that I could say to make you feel better. Just know that I am here if you need to talk and know that you can come to this group and vent and talk all you need to! We are here to support you!

this is the "other" side of addicition. the side that YOU have to deal with. right now hes digging himself deeper and deeper. he HAS to hit his rock bottom before he will ever be able to get himself back together. you can not trust him. (trust is earned not given) you have to stay strong and do your best to keep yourself level. you may always love him, but its just not going to work until he can love YOU more than he loves the drugs. and right now, the drugs are the ONLY thing he loves. if he is willing to rob his parents and other family memebers, he is willing to rob you. dont let him steal your heart! make him earn it! if right now is not the right time for him.... let him go!

This is all so familiar. I'm 8 1/2 months pregnant and finally have woke up and broke up with my boyfriend. He's never went to someone's house and stolen anything, but he will get money from his customers and spend I think on drugs. because their cars will just be sitting sometime. He's taken me through a lot. He started recently doing heavy drinking 4 to 5 days out the week, but I think that's to cover up the crack cocaine use. He denies it. His money has been off for a while. I love him so much and was feeling the same way that you feel, i didn't want to abandon him. I love him so much, but refuse to keep letting him disappoint me. We've only been a part for a couple of weeks. My mind is really set, I'm moving on. When someone is drugs and they want to go on a drug binge they find any excuse to leave you. I'm tired of being mistreated and used. I've tried, but can't be with someone that loves drugs more than me. I was told earlier in this group that I was going to have to let him go. I pray he gets cleaned before he kills his self. Lynn they aren't theirself. Their moody and and have the attitude that nothing matters, their always depressed and always blame you for everything! As the days go by, I realize that I made the right choice. I think about how bably he's treated me when he goes on his binges. Ignoring my calls and just calling me out of my name. The sad part is that I'm pregnant. Because of his actions I don't think I'm going to invite him to be a part of our baby's birth. Lynn when you get tired you'll make a move.