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06/14/2008 18:50
gal2
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I am new to this site, and am not real sure what I am doing...so please be patient with me...

Because I am new here...I dont know all of what I can do, and how to do it.

What I am looking for is, some support because my sister is heavily involved with drugs. It is putting our family through hell, and I am looking for support from others that know what I am going through.

is there anyone out there that is willing to answer with a reply? Please remember that if you reply, it might take me awhile to figure out how to answer.

thank you for any help that you have.

sincerely,

kim

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06/15/2008 08:15
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Hey Kim, my name is Claudia and I am a recovering alcohol/addict. I can tell you that I know what addiction does to the ones who love the addict. I have broken hearts, lost friends and dissappoint family. My partner Carrie would probably be the better one to talk to you because she had been by my side twice now through addiction! I can tell you what your sister is probably going through, but I'm sure Carrie will help you with how to deal with her. I have 17 days clean and sober now. As it is not an easy path, it has been the best days of my life since I can remeber!
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06/15/2008 12:11
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claudia, it was nice to hear from you. yes our family is going through hell. there are times when she is home, and asking my parents to get her into rehab. she take her shopping for things that she will need, and then she blows them off. it is sad, because I want to see her better, and i want my sister back. I cant tell you how much i miss her. it pains my heart so. .

how long have you been involved with alcohol? are there patterns that will show whether or not she is serious? my husband's sister has been a drug addict for most of her life and now she is in her 50's. I believe that she is on the road to recovery. she got into trouble with the law, and was mandated through the courts to attend Narcotic Anonymos meetings. She just finished her program, and got her certificate. My husband thinks he knows it all because he has lived through it with her. So, because I try to believe in my sister, he and I fight about her. He is so critical of her. It really upsets me. So, as a result, he and I dont discuss her.

I just want her better, but it doesnt feel as though that is going to happen anytime soon.

well that is all the thoughts I have for right now....

kim



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06/15/2008 12:53
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Hi Kim, I'm so sorry that you're in this situation. Noone likes to see a family member struggle with addiction or any type of problem.

Have they ever thought of doing an intervention with her? How old is she? When she is home, how long is she there?

Have you ever thought of going to a Nar-Anon meeting? It is for the loved ones of the addict. Anyone in your family could go. They can help you learn new ways of thinking towards the addiction and help you move on with your life.

There isn't much anyone can do until she is ready. The best thing for people is to let the addict have consequences for their behavior. When they finially have negative consequences then they will seek help. No, they don't have to go to jail or anything like that. Just don't "bail" her out anymore. Don't give her money, don't give her things she can sell for drugs. Let her "hit bottom."

I hope that you find a way to deal with your feelings and frustrations with the addiction. You need to take care of yourself in all of this.

If you ever need to talk, you can PM me anytime.

Post edited by: mommyofsixFriend2U, at: 06/17/2008 08:10

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06/17/2008 07:40
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Hi Kim, I am so sorry to hear about your sister. As far as your husbands sister goes, I know for me, that when I was forced by the courts into recovery, I didn't stay clean. An addict/alcoholic has to want sobriety for themselves. I have been drinking since I was ten years old, that would make it 24 years I have been involved with alcohol. I started using drugs when I was 13, so 21 years on drugs. I have never been serious about getting sober before, I know I only have 19 days, but that's the longest I have gone by choice since I started using. As far as your sister, I can't really answer for her, but I can tell you that I have said many times I was going to go to rehab, but that was usually when I was high or drunk or just wanted to get something from somebody, but once I got sober, it never sounded like a good idea, many addicts decide they want sobriet when they are messed up, but once that is gone, so is the desire to quit. I wish I know all the right things to tell you, all I can say now is that I will be here for you whenever you wish to talk. I will share my knowledge and experience with you and support you as much as possible. Best of luck and wishes. Please get back with me soon and let me know how you are holding up.

Claudia

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06/20/2008 17:46
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All you can really do is Pray, and be there for her when she is ready for help...

It sucks...I know. Good luck / God Bless


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