 My 34 year old son lives with us and he works from the home for the cable company. We love having him here and we will miss him and his little dog when he moves out sometime this spring. He is a good son and pays rent and helps out with the groceries and lets me drive his car b/c it takes less gas than my large car does. It has been a real pleasure having him here. Now here is where I need the help: Son's friend gets kicked out of his apt b/c his signifigant other moves somebody else in. He was suddenly homeless and I couldn't stand that so I let this young man move in our house til other arrangements can be made. Son and friend are apartment hunting this month and plan to move when they find something suitable. Problem is _ he has been here for a week now and has not showered once. He is starting to smell and it is smelling up the bedroom he is sharing with my son. What I want to know is how do I tell him to shower and not embarrass him? Do I tell him myself OR should I let my son tell him after I bring it up to him for discussion? I don't want to offend either young man or hurt anyone's feelings but this not bathing thing has got to end tonight!!! HELP!!!!!!! Disclaimer:: I am not a doctor or a psychiatrist and my advice and opinion should be regarded
as such...
..OKLAHOMA CITY BOMBING
Murrah Federal building...downtown
April 19, 1995
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"I've been a grateful member here for over 4 yrs this place has changed my life of course for the better, coming to the groups has enabled me to no longer feel so alone. As a group leader for the Bipolar Support group I can relate to others and am expressing my experience strength and hope and this is very rewarding, I've also made many supportive friends here whom I talk to some daily. I used to have a lot of 'lows' since becoming member here at MdJunction I no longer have these lows." (Dit)
