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04/07/2008 07:47
Bronzey
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hello everyone

i'm new to the group although i'm not diabetic but my father is and has been for almost 10 years now.. i love my father but he doesnt really seem to care about him being diabetic and he doesnt take care of himself that much.. he eats too much sweets, till now my mom refuses to make any desert at home and now that she does that he'll just go out and eat it or will sneak it when my mom DOES make anyy.. he refuses to work out he says hes to tired from work (my dads kinda lazy) my dad's over weight and now in the last two months has developed high blood pressure problems.. the doctor keeps warning him about his weight and his eating habits and he needs to get some kinda workout coz his sugar is always high and they just keep giving him more medicine and they said if he doesnt start taking care of himself hes gonna have to be put on insulin.. he always blames that on my mom and tells her shes not considering him when shes cooking.. but we all know its not just the food thats the problem.. oh and hes had cholesterol problems for as long as hes been diabetic aswell..

we're at a loss of what we should do with my dad .. any ideas? thanx

Krystle

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04/07/2008 09:02
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Even if a patient refuses to comply with a diabetic diet, the disease can still be controlled with insulin. Someone needs to be counting carbohydrates and injecting insulin based on that consumption.

There is a down side to this thinking. That is that weight gain is likely to occur. Excessive weight is a countermeasure to insulin. So, more insulin would have to be administered and if hypoglycemia occurs then the patient has no choice but to eat. This can be a counterproductive cycle.

Nonetheless, in this situation -- one where the patient refuses to adopt a diabetic diet -- additional insulin must be used.

Try to use this information to reason with your dad. But if this does not work, then adopt a defensive attitude in your use of insulin.

God bless,

R.

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04/07/2008 09:37
Bronzey
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thanx rkselter for ur reply and i will try to use that with my father.. hope it works and thanx for the advice..

Krystle



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04/07/2008 13:04
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your welcome. God bless.
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04/07/2008 15:18
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you'll NOT get him to change...even on his deathbed !

make sure your family will be provided for.

check his insurance

pre-plan his funeral

that MIGHT wake him up...but I SERIOUSLY doubt it!

this is NO joke and NO I'm NOT being facetious!

been there...done that !

serious business here !

DON'T wait till the last minute and get caught short.

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04/08/2008 03:45
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Hi, Bronzey, Earle is right unless he wants to change and to take it seriously, there is nothing you can do, just like the alcoholic and the addict, till they are ready for help, there ain't much that anyone else can do to make them see the light, does your mom know how to cook for a diabetic? if not, get her some cookbooks, there are wonderful desserts that can be made that are diabetic friendly, that would hopefully help to keep him from sneaking out and eating them outside the house. we have a recipe exchange here on this forum, where you can find recipes that she can try out, just ask for what kinda recipe you want to try and I will get it for you. As for the exercise? how about getting him to start taking a walk with you or your mom? get him a membership with the local YMCA that has a swimming pool, maybe that would encourage him, but if he doesn't want too, he won't, perhaps his doctor can show him pictures of the folks that decided to not pay attention and had to have amputations, maybe that will wake him up.
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