hello everyone

only i am not so sure my hubby will listen. to say the least- as of right now- we are not speaking. that is how bad it has gotten. and my dr has not put me on hrt- i still have one ovary and part of a tube-fallopian.

so - yeah it more than likely will get better but how and when- who knows?! just at the moment it seems like an eternity as my hubby and i are not speaking- and yes its killing me- but i cannot make the first move over this- i know it sounds selfish- but i just cannot. to much has happened and to much has been said- i just do not know anymore.

okay i have rambled enough- yes i did smile at your story- and it does sound somewhat like mine- but at this point- i am totally lost in all of this................

i hope that things will get better- but right now i am not so sure.

thanks again!!!!

katrinamarie

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walk in and Vida is crying her EYES out...over??? I DON'T KNOWWWWWWW !!!

it's a tough time for everyone and no buts about it.

all i could do was to hold her and comfort her.

NEVER make fun or accuse her of ANYTING [ though I WANTED to,ROFL ! ].

MENOPAUSE IS NOTHING TO SNEEZE AT AND gawd I'M glad I'M a MAN,LOL !!

takes a LOT of LOVE,UNDERSTANDING and PATIENCE,no doubt about it!

just remember "IF IT'S WHITE...IT AIN'T RIGHT !"

that's how i've kept my weight down to 145 for going on 6 years now.

nope,ain't easy but remember all those that you know who had this terrible disease and ARE NOT HERE ANYMORE !

that ought to give you pause,strength and reason to stay healthy

You can also approach him and tell him that while you might not want to listen, I would appreciate it if you would, and then explain about what is going on with you, that right now your body is very out of whack..and your hormones are on a rampage.. given time you will be back to where you were.

we started talking tonite- but accomplished NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!! i tried to tell him i have no idea why things are this bad for us- and my emotions took over and created another fight....................so here i sit at 12:15 AM cuz i cannot sleep. and i have no clue who to talk with on this- i am so lost- i thought things were suppose to get better- not worse!!

I do want to say thank you for listening to me- and i am sorry that right now i am a basket case- registereduser1946- all of what you said is me- but i sure wish my husband would read these posts- he could use some help as well- but according to him- i have done all the things on my own-and i should not be doing this-

katrinamarie

Your greeting is very welcoming! Thank you.