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Angelface08 Posts: 218
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Im almost 23 and I have made a fair amount of my own mistakes and had to figured out how to get back up. Its only made me stronger but if id only listened to my mom. Ive learned to listen now lol But you have a big fear and a valid one at that is going to affect you life not just hers, you might just want to sit her down in a restaurant somewhere where she cant get up and run off (go in one car) calmly over dinner tell her how yo feel and why you feel that way and why you are worried. Discuss you feelings with the boyfriend everything. Your both adults so have an adult conversation but as I suggested take one car so you guys have to say and have the conversation. Open, honest communication will make this easy and painless. I hope all works out and this helps some. Its how my mom dealt with my sister, car out to dinner. Our relationship open and honest communication so its pretty smooth. Best of luck! I have epilepsy,Myasthenia gravis,ADHD,Asthma,HSV, recovered ED, free of abuse, HSV and depression. I wont be a victim of abuse.
“This life is what you make it. Not matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, somg go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. And babve, I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up becuase if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.”
― Marilyn Monroe
“Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is beauty, admire it.
Life is a dream, realize it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it.
Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it.
Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it.
Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it.
Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it.
Life is too precious, do not destroy it.
Life is life, fight for it.”
Mother Teresa
My advice is all from personal experience I am not a doctor, do not substitute this for medical advice :) |
.she's not on any birth control and what will more than likely happen really worries me. To me it's a predictable situation...alcholic b/f, in jail, swears he's changed, they'll shack up, have a baby and then he'll start drinking again and she'll leave and come asking us for help. We still technically own her car - took it away for 6 weeks after the accident - got it running so she could look for a job - she's paid about 1/2 on it and owes us the rest; title is in our name.
