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mallory8830  Posts: 5
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Ok...I don't want to freak anyone out with this question but I need answers...I have no insurance and no money to go to a doctor about this...My Fiance and I have been having frequent sex for a year and a half now....I haven't gotten pregnant or had a period this entire time...Can anyone tell me what is wrong with me? Could one of us be steril? How can I find this out? Other than this I am fairly healthy. I have no idea why I can't get pregant and why I am not having a period...
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Chanda Posts: 2137
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My hubby and I have been having sex with no protection and I havent gotten pregnant either, its been like 2 yrs we've been sexually active. It makes me a lil nervous too. There may be nothing wrong with either of u. Im puzzled too with our situation, but I just say, well when God wants us to have a baby we will and if He doesnt, well then I will be sooooooooo sad. Oh and I havent had my period in like 2 mos., but its been longer. I am not a Doctor, just a person who experiences panic and anxiety and Im here to try to help people and also learn from them also. ;)
Check out my blog about panic and anxiety, I try to write in it daily, This site has helped me. And the Programs on the top, sides, and bottom! NO MORE ANXIETY & PANIC!!
http://paniccure123.blogspot.com
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*Cast all you anxiety on (God), because he cares for you. I Peter 5:7
*I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.- Phil 4:13
*So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.- Isaiah 41:10
*For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee. - Isaiah 41:13
*"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." -Proverbs 3:5-6
*Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.- Psalm 23:4
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Interesting... I have the same issues. I have had unprotected sex with my hubby and we haven't ever been pregnant. We are both extremely healthy and fit. I have my period like clock-work...I don't think I"ve ever missed a period since I got it when I was 15. I wonder if maybe I'm just not ovulating???? |
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mallory8830 Posts: 5
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See at times I thought maybe that I wasn't either...but then I have no idea why I wouldn't be... |
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2bdjm Posts: 24
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mallory8830 - You could visit a public health department for an examination. The charges are based on your ability to pay. I used to work at a public health department in the family planning department. They offer good services for those without insurance and/or low income. |
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Chanda Posts: 2137
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r u girls on any meds.? I am not a Doctor, just a person who experiences panic and anxiety and Im here to try to help people and also learn from them also. ;)
Check out my blog about panic and anxiety, I try to write in it daily, This site has helped me. And the Programs on the top, sides, and bottom! NO MORE ANXIETY & PANIC!!
http://paniccure123.blogspot.com
If you ever need me & im not on here, try my yahoo IM- Babygirlluv1978, my myspace is or also www.myspace.com/BabyGirlLuv1978 and facebook under Chanda Miller, I play pogo alot at pogo.com, my name is cdm62108
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**** I HAVE PICTURES, I LOVE PICS.!!!****
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*Cast all you anxiety on (God), because he cares for you. I Peter 5:7
*I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.- Phil 4:13
*So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.- Isaiah 41:10
*For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee. - Isaiah 41:13
*"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." -Proverbs 3:5-6
*Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.- Psalm 23:4
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AndysCandi
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I take Lexapro for depression and seroqeul for sleep at night. I don't think they affect anything though...because before I was taking those it was the deal. I just bought an ovulation kit at the store and I'm going to test myself after my next period. |
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Chanda Posts: 2137
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I took lexapro too, maybe it is lexapro! Now im off of it tho, 2 mos now. I am not a Doctor, just a person who experiences panic and anxiety and Im here to try to help people and also learn from them also. ;)
Check out my blog about panic and anxiety, I try to write in it daily, This site has helped me. And the Programs on the top, sides, and bottom! NO MORE ANXIETY & PANIC!!
http://paniccure123.blogspot.com
If you ever need me & im not on here, try my yahoo IM- Babygirlluv1978, my myspace is or also www.myspace.com/BabyGirlLuv1978 and facebook under Chanda Miller, I play pogo alot at pogo.com, my name is cdm62108
**************************************************
**** I HAVE PICTURES, I LOVE PICS.!!!****
**************************************************
*Cast all you anxiety on (God), because he cares for you. I Peter 5:7
*I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.- Phil 4:13
*So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.- Isaiah 41:10
*For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee. - Isaiah 41:13
*"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." -Proverbs 3:5-6
*Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.- Psalm 23:4
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dreamsofinsomnia Posts: 1719
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i hate to ask this cause it is personal so you just go through the following checklist of the things that make most people infertil if none of them apply go to your local family planning they offer infertility help or at least information and someone to talk to and it is on a sliding income scale- hear is the check list over the age of 40 if you had your first intercours under the age of 21 it adds a risk of infertility if you have had lots of partners adds a risk if your partner has had partners outside the marriage if you have had chlamydia, gonorrhea, trichomonas, genital warts, herpes, bacterial baginosis, pid adds large risk if you used an iud adds risk if you have irregualar cycle adds a risk if you smoked marijuana adds a risk if you use a lot of alchol adds a risk if your mother was exposed to des while she was pregnant with you adds a risk if you don't have a yearly pap test also make sure you check any side effects of medications you are currently taking to see if it has sexual side effects if you or your partner is overweight, has diabeties, or don't get enough exercise these to can cause infertility i know it is a big list but it is the list given to you from the family planning program on the subject this is the 800 numver for nd they can direct you to an office in your area i am sure 1-800-472-2286 Please, please forgive me,
But I won't be home again.
Maybe someday you'll look up,
And, barely conscious, you'll say to no one:
"Isn't something missing?"
You won't cry for my absence, I know -
You forgot me long ago.
Am I that unimportant...?
Am I so insignificant...?
Isn't something missing?
Isn't someone missing me?
Even though I'm the sacrifice,
You won't try for me, not now.
Though I'd die to know you love me,
I'm all alone.
Isn't someone missing me?
Please, please forgive me,
But I won't be home again.
I know what you do to yourself,
I breathe deep and cry out:
"Isn't something missing?
Isn't someone missing me?"
Even though I'm the sacrifice,
You won't try for me, not now.
Though I'd die to know you love me,
I'm all alone.
Isn't someone missing me?
And if I bleed, I'll bleed,
Knowing you don't care.
And if I sleep just to dream of you
And wake without you there,
Isn't something missing?
Isn't something...
Even though I'm the sacrifice,
You won't try for me, not now.
Though I'd die to know you love me,
I'm all alone.
Isn't something missing?
Isn't someone missing me?
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jsrdrnr Posts: 1928
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The fact that you are not having a period is puzzling to me. That can be for a lot of reasons. It is not necessarily a good thing or a bad thing but should be checked out. I understand not having insurance and not being able to pay. I would call the local health dept and see what their requirements. You may very well qualify or even qualify for a very discounted exam. At least then you will have a bit more info. I hope it all works out for you. My best day is worse than the worst day you have ever imagined. |
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