http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/feed http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/feed en-us Copyright (C) MDJunction.com. All rights reserved. Tue, 18 Jun 2013 18:59:32 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/introductions-personal-stories/10688520-my-dear-dad-passed-away#10747396 Thank You Mustardo Mum me are taking one day at a time its like starting a new life its so difficult but have to keep going for Mum, sorry Mustard if its upset you but its supposed to be good to cry thinking of you. Hugs blessings Bobby... Wed, 12 Jun 2013 02:13:42 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10687113-also-wondering-how-to-survive-the-death-of-my-daughter#10737719 I cannot begin to imagine how painful that must have been for you. I am so sorry. Peace to you. mustard... Fri, 07 Jun 2013 21:04:37 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/introductions-personal-stories/10734876-my-dad-died#10735825 My dad died four months after my son died. He had many strokes that left him with many challenges but it looked like he was doing great. My sons slept with him at the hospital and helped him with his ot and pt. My dad said it should have been him. They were both Alberts. He just seemed to give up. My dad was a very sensitive man. He loved us all. He was very giving to all. He had lots of people attend his funeral. I miss them both very much. They are in my thoughts and I carry t... Fri, 07 Jun 2013 08:09:02 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/introductions-personal-stories/10120913-the-death-of-my-son#10705250 I am reminded of my son every day, too. It is like I think of him even more now. My cousin accidentally shot himself at 18 but he had a little girl at that time that was in the same room when it happened. Life has many strange twists and turns. I love my son too much to forget him but wanted him around to enjoy more. I can't think of the what ifs because it creates even more hurt. I stop myself and think of the good, wonderful and create hope. I hope you can do the same someday. smilem... Fri, 24 May 2013 14:47:01 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10682388-mixed-feelings#10682640 Having lost a child myself, it will be very difficult but knowing that you love them will make all the difference in the world. You can still stay in touch with them daily now and visit now and then. It would have been totally devestating if you had not let it all go. It will work out... Tue, 14 May 2013 19:30:11 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10676762-mothers-day#10676878 Thanks you, beautiful post.... Sun, 12 May 2013 04:53:05 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10675138-i-have-to-be-here#10675138 My husb. is dying. He doesnt think so but I know he is. It's a long 3-year story. He is only 52. Every day I hate waking up (I pray that either he or I die during the night), I hate facing another horrible day ahead in which I cant figure out why God keeps putting breath in our bodies and making us get up and face the day every day. It's a horrible existence. He is dying, bit by bit, and I am the only caregiver and now I have a fucking broken ankle to boot!!!! These are the 2 most horrible thing... Sat, 11 May 2013 06:40:46 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10641067-not-family-but-my-first-love-died#10671856 Thank You Firefly81 for your kind words. I am terrible sorry that you're going through this too. People tell me tine heals all, but its been nearly 5 months and I still can't breathe either... the hole in by chest is still there and it burns. I sincerely wish you well, I am very sorry for your loss. I hope you find happiness soon.... Thu, 09 May 2013 16:58:37 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10655202-i-had-a-tragic-death-in-1989#10655202 I'm here to connect with others, give support, share, bring Global Awareness . After so many years of recovery in many things in my life, I'm now a Spiritual life Coach . I give others a voice. I have a story to tell...I lived it. I'm a miracle...a living survival, of (abuse, trauma, a dysfunctional family, domestic violence, Death within the family, close to my own death many times, disabilities, addiction and associating with those with addiction, codependency)... Thu, 02 May 2013 00:02:13 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10626680-how-to-help-my-dad#10627453 You need to let him know and make him feel how important to you he is. Try to find things to ask him to do for you, even if they are made up things just to include him in your life and he will feel the love. Maybe take him out to eat or plan meals either at his house or yours and include him in the preparation. I know it's really hard but just give it some thought. I think he is just extremely lonely and needs reasons to keep on keepen on.... Thu, 18 Apr 2013 08:41:46 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10602474-moms-birthday-tomorrow#10626684 thanks. i didnt do anything specific for her as we all just tried not to think about it. But i plan to give her a late bday present and plant a tree for her in our yard. that way my dad wont necessarily relate it to her, and i know she would like it.... Wed, 17 Apr 2013 21:45:30 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10581778-need-advice-how-to-deal-with-death-of-my-sister#10581778 Hi I'm 21 and my mum just gave birth to my baby sister 2 days ago but my sister was 3 months premature and had a weak heart and sadly died two hours later in my mums arms. As a family we have never had to deal with something like this and my mum has not cried. I'm afrad I might say something wrong but trying so strong to be to strong for my mum and rest of the family but I'm finding it hard too. I dunno what to say to my mum or do please if I can get some advice be very greatful. Sky03... Thu, 28 Mar 2013 09:52:12 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10580952-mother-died-of-cancer-in-a-failed-bone-marrow-transplant#10580952 I am a 21 year old girl just dropped out of college. It happened in November of last year. Only been about 3 months. I loved her more than anyone or anything; I was sooo close to her. I heard going online was a good idea... I am not too sure what to say. I have a whole lot of things I could vent about. How horrible it was to watch my mother die in my arms, how much she suffered in the hospital, how messed up my dad is without my mom ( I fear he will kill himself or something), and how much I m... Wed, 27 Mar 2013 22:46:27 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10513468-sudden-death-of-a-cousin#10557027 It's normal:)... Mon, 18 Mar 2013 07:20:15 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10448360-son-23-died-in-motorcycle-accident#10557022 I'm sorry. He and I were the same age!... Mon, 18 Mar 2013 07:17:42 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10469876-yesurday-my-mother-dead#10469973 I am so very sorry about your Mom. Your reaction to this is pretty normal because of it being such a shock. You are so young to lose your Mom. Your journey through the grief process will be a little different every day. Know that it is OK to cry and feel whatever it is that you are feeling. Again I'm so sorry but know that your Moms gentle spirit will always be around you.... Sat, 09 Feb 2013 07:00:52 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10423638-how-to-deal-with-family-who-is-in-grief-but-lashes-out#10429241 People deal with death at their own pace.Your mom has her own issues. You do too.Mom taking it out on you IS NOT RIGHT. Tell mom that until she stops taking in out on you, you will limit contact. You have a RIGHT to be hurt when she pulled that stunt the night she asked you to come for dinner. It was very RUDE to say the least. You should tell mom how you feel. She may not like it, but, you need to express how you feel... Fri, 25 Jan 2013 12:09:16 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10119128-having-trouble-dealing-with-a-death#10412599 Hello chloe22, You gave your grandmother the greatest gift and that is company and comfort at her death. That is is very precious gift and shows your true love to stay. My grandmother wanted all her children and grandchildren around when she died. The gift is being there for her might now seem like a sacrifice to you but it shows your love and dedication to someone you love. What a wonderful gift. My dad did not want to be alone when he died. I think our story of someone's death is... Sun, 20 Jan 2013 07:18:20 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10407550-being-greedy#10412290 I understand completely. When my mom passed I had cousins and an aunt that were all concerned about my mom leaving a will. My mom left everything to my stepdad. She told him what she wanted me to have. We get along so I wasn't worried about it at all. and we're not talking about money, just photos and pieces of furniture. my mom received very little when her parents passed, reet of the family took everything, and since my mom is gone they felt like they could get the small portion she had. She w... Sun, 20 Jan 2013 03:02:17 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/death-in-the-family-discussions/general-support/10352614-where-to-start#10379900 Thanks so much for the reply, it gives me a better understanding of what it means to live and pass and find our own purpose in life!!! :)... 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