damselndistress
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Yeah,you can't let him manipulate you like that. This is maybe where some misunderstand. It's not about not caring about your husband, it's about keeping your life healthy. For him to threaten to do things if you do not stay by his side, is his responsibility, not yours. Obviously you can't leave your kids with him if he seems unsafe. But you cannot let him control your life like that for sure. I don't think our spouses understand and see this is uncaring behavior. It isn't uncaring at all. Caring isn't controlling and manipulating, it is having an honest concern for another. We can't control what actions they take and we wish for them to stay safe. That outcome once again is not up to us and we cannot take responsibilty (guilt) for it. |
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