Welcome Ginag, many people do not realize how long it takes to learn how to truly cope with being abused as a child. I recently got some of my records from when I was a child put into a group home to protect me from my step father's abuse. I guess they didn't realize how neglected I was as both parents were at the least drunks. I found out that my mom had been in and out of hospitals and was prescribed tranquilizers and that my step dad had spent some time in jail for putting a hooker's mattress on fire. I think any one who abuses a child is mentally ill. The thing that surprised me the most is that apparently I said I was very close to both my parents and constantly wanted to either go home or to a foster home. I have no recollection of that at all. So not being able to remember is quiet common from what I hear and have experienced. My main leadership role is to listen, encourage, and keep the peace....It isn't to give medical or legal advice...Please note...I am not a Doctor...nor an expert...I am here for the same reason all of you are...to receive and give encouragement.
My religion is kindness - The Dalai Lama
For small creatures such as we the vastness is bearable only through love. Carl Sagan |
