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10/28/2011 05:09 PM
manthacarrie
 
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I've been wrapping my self around the concept of being a mom however today my boyfriend whom I got engaged to two days after we found out i'm expecting told me today that he doesn't want the baby doesn't want the responsibility or to take care of it and then he just left without warning what a child if he is going to leave us he doesn't deserve us I just can't believe that this is happening
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10/29/2011 05:35 AM  Top
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rlt
 
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OMG... I am so sorry. This kind of stress is not good for you, or the baby. I agree that he doesn't deserve you!!! No one knows what the future holds and you need to focus on yourself and this child who you will love more than anything else in this world. My first pregnancy was HORRIFIC. I married too young, husband was an idiot, I moved back and forth from him to my parents, lived with my parents when the baby was born, tried to "work things out" with him and just couldn't. I figured I would rather take care of 1 baby then 2Smile An amazing blessing happened when the baby was 2 months. I met my husband whom I just celebrated 26 years with!!! You don't know what is waiting for you. Good, bad and everything in the middle, but you CERTAINLY know that asomeone who could do this to you would have done this eventually...... We are here for you. How are the physical symptoms going?

11/02/2011 11:16 AM  Top
manthacarrie
 
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I am feeling good actually today despite alot of nausea he came back and took everything back but I just can't stand the immaturity to just think of himself like that I would expect that from an eighteen or nineteen year old not an almost 26 year old I still love him and all but since then I have lost some respect for him I just hope that he sticks through and stops this immature acting out thank you for your support I really appreciate it and thank god you got out of that horrible situation and are with a great guy I love to hear happy endings Smile

11/02/2011 11:56 AM  Top
rlt
rlt
 
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You too will have a happy endingSmile Take care of yourself, and the gift you've been given. Sometimes really good people do stupid things.. I hope this is the case with your guy. Just keep your eyes opened wide. We are all entitled to a mistake, and he may have been scared of this new responsibility(like YOU had an option to run.. I don't think so). Stay strong dear girlSmile
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