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05/02/2007 00:03
fragilelives
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I'm sitting here with my brush in one hand and my husband's shaving machine in the other. When I started chemo, it was clear for me: as soon as I lose more than a couple of hairs a day, I'm shaving it. Yeah, very brave of me... Now I pass my hand through my hair and I take it away full of what used to be my greatest asset. I've always had good hair - always kept it long, curly and rich.

I should have done this for days now. I'm starting to look like a funny bald monster, like that guy in the "Lord of the Rings", I'm bald with some isles of long hair, that will soon be gone.

I don't want to shave it. Should I let it fall itself? I would look horrible, but I can't bring myself to do it.

Maybe I'll visit my hairdresser and close my eyes.

The reason I'm writing my story is to ask you, ladies, how did you cope with hair loss to chemo? Is vanity a sin or an absurdity in our condition?

Hmmmm...

Just sitting here.


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05/12/2007 14:18
jessicaharris9
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Don't ever let anyone make you feel like you are vain or sinful for not wanting to give up your hair or breasts! This disease sucks, the only way you get through it is to learn how to accept it and laugh at it. No one other than other patients/survivor have any idea what you are going through! I was like you with my hair, long thick wavy hair. I cut my hair short when I started chemo so that when it started falling out it wouldn't be so dramatic. About a week after my hair started falling out (I spent 45 minutes every day in the shower pulling out clumps) my husband said "it's time" and pulled out the shaver. I wasn't ready and cried a bit, but knew he was right and let him shave my head. We were in Houston, TX at the time, it was June and hotter than heck! I got over it and embrased my baldness by going out in public bald. I still looked really healthy, so I just let everyone think what they wanted. My girlfriends and church were so suppoortive and commended me for my bravery. I always had a scarf in my bag incase my head got cold. I eventually got sick of being bald and started wearing my scarves and hats and then switched over to my wigs. Do what feels comfortable for you. My hubby shaved his head with me and has kept his hair extremely short ever since. It's just recently (10 months later) that my hair is staying ahead of his!

Good luck

Jessi

6/9/06 - biopsy positive for cancer
6/23/06 - DIAGNOSIS: stage IV (T4d N2 M1) invasive ductile carcinoma NOS with bone and liver mets; 17 cm mass (primary tumors), inflammatory breast cancer(IBC); HER2/neu+, HR-
6/26/06-12/11/06 - Chemo FEC/Taxol w/Herceptin & Aredia
12/20/06 - right modified radical mastectomy, 7 of 13 removed nodes showed evidence of prior disease
12/21/06 - No Evidence of Disease (stage IV/NED); complete remission
2/6/07-3/22/07-Radiation 28+5 boost, 6040cGy.
CURRENT: Still NED, taking Herceptin and Zometa without end. Heart and kidney function remains normal.
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