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10/30/2009 02:04 PM
sheselectric

Hello, I am new to this community. I hope to find here people who understand what I go through and do not judge me.

I was diagnosed BP-II within the last year, but I've only come to embrace and believe in the diagnosis recently. I have told one person other than my husband of my diagnosis and this person has since seemingly removed herself from my life. I am afraid to tell my family or anyone else I know. The stereotypes and misunderstanding surrounding bipolar disorder are very saddening and distressing to me.

I am currently unmedicated and searching for the right drugs. I have been through several in the past two years, during which time I was misdiagnosed with depression. The medications have been very hard on me, and I'm not looking forward to experimenting further.

I am glad I have found this resource and I look forward to interacting with other members.

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10/30/2009 02:12 PM  Top
Fierosmom

sheselectric: Welcome to the group! I think you will find this group very supportive. I'm sorry that you have had a bad experience with medication and ignorance from people. Feel free to ask and questions you may have. Again Welcome! Beth

10/30/2009 02:29 PM  Top
mixma
mixma  
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Hi and welcome to the group. I know what you mean about the stigma. There are very few people I've told other than my husband and kids for that very reason. The unknown is scary and many people can't be bothered to educate themselves. This is a great group with many supportive people. I'm looking forward to getting to know you better.

Tracey

Please don't take my advice as a medical opinion. I'm just someone trying to live and learn with the same disorder you are :)


Some people are like slinkies - absolutely useless and you can't help but smile when you push them down the stairs

I also suffer from CDO - Obsessive Compulsive Disorder but it's in alphabetical order the way it should be

I'm in my own little world. That's okay, though, they know me here

I would rather do evil than be evil.

One of the greatest pleasures in life is doing what others say you cannot

Depression is anger without the enthusiasm

10/30/2009 04:28 PM  Top
keith9999
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Hi and welcome... I was misdiagnosed with depression for a while too and finally was diagnosed with Bipolar II this past year. I haven't told anyone outside of my family... I think I would but still am afraid of the reaction you had from telling someone. I hope you're doing well and are able to get the right meds soon. Take care.

10/30/2009 06:17 PM  Top
sheselectric

Thank you for the warm welcome. It's good to be here.Smile

10/30/2009 06:32 PM  Top
jenigood1
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Hi! I love your profile name and picture - makes me want to do the Electric Slide! (The best line dance I know; the only line dance I know.)

So glad you have found us! You'll find so many people here who understand exactly what you're going through - and not a judgemental one in the bunch! (I've never heard anyone judge anyone here, and I've been on almost every day since April.)

Best of luck to you on your med search! Do you have a good psychiatrist (or psych. nurse practitioner) who knows a lot about bipolar meds and how they work together? (If you were on antidepressants by themselves for your bipolar, that's probably why you had a bad experience. They can cause mania, depression, or mixed episodes.) Once you're on a mood stabilizer, perhaps in combination with other meds, you should start feeling better I hope the first med combo you try is the one that works for you! Sometimes it takes time to find the right ones so be patient and keep experimenting! You'll get there! Glad you're here with us - Jeni

Jeni

Lamictal
Abilify
Cymbalta
Trazodone
Vyvanse

"Remember - when you fall on your face, you're still moving forward!"
My advice is free, completely anecdotal, and comes from my own experience. Always talk to your doctor before you change anything.

10/30/2009 09:54 PM  Top
Tommy100
Tommy100  
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Welcome! You electricshe! Laughing you wont be alone on this forum.

Tom.

Any advice or comment from me is just my personal opinion.
Please talk to a Professional for assessment and medication.

10/31/2009 07:28 AM  Top
kylisa41
kylisa41  
Posts: 31
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Hi there and welcome to this group.
Lisa

10/31/2009 08:59 AM  Top
bookgirl
bookgirl  
Posts: 6
Member

Hi sheselectric: I too recently joined this group looking for people with like experiences. One of the problems with Bipolar II is that it is so isolating due to the stigma you mention. It also takes very understanding friends because of the often erratic behavior caused by mood swings (I am an ultrarapid cycler, so I know I am hard to know). Loneliness is one of my biggest problems with coping. I do get comfort from coming to these pages. I hope you do too.

11/03/2009 11:28 PM  Top
cinemacraze
cinemacraze  
Posts: 89
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I feel very jealous of those of you who already have husbands and wives who are so supportive. I'm 19 and was just diagnosed and it's extremely frightening going to college with Bipolar disorder. Who should I tell and how to cope with it during a major turning point in my life.

When I am ready to start dating how and when can I tell them I'm bipolar? How do I explain to them what they are getting themselves into... *sigh* I envy all of you who have such a strong support system.

Diagnosed November 3, 2009 Bipolar II rapid cycling with frequent mixed episodes.
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