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02/25/2008 12:06
applepie22
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Hello to all, I found this site one night at 3 a.m. It seems to be a little ritual of mine about every month or two I check in with the internet to see if they have possibly changed to definiation of bipolar -- and maybe, just maybe -- it doesn't describe me as much.

After much reading, many tears, and time....it would appear that indeed....the definiation of biploar does still fit me -- sadly.

There were many posts that hit pretty close to home. Hubby found me at 6 a.m. crying in front of the computer. I haven't been super open with him about things, but he knows I have a hard time accepting it.

So, that is me....I look forward to reading more, learning more, and working on accepting me.

I am sure I will have lots of questions, and a bit of exploring to do.

It's great to find a good site.


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06/08/2008 09:45
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Hi appliepie, yeah, this site has it's good parts and bad. Good to know that there are other people going through the same things we are but bad becasue it confirms what we dont want to admit. that we are BIPOLAR. I'm handling it so well now that i dont let it bother me anymore. when i get worried about my stability, i draw in the people in my cirle and let them know i need their support right now. it's only emotional support, but it's good enough. just having someone tell you you are doing the right things to cope it a great burden lifted. Becuz half the time we drive ourselves crazy asking ourselves questions like "i feel great, oh oh, am i getting manicy?" "am i handling this situatino the right way?" "i feel depressed, what do i do", etc. hang in there, it gets better.
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06/08/2008 12:02
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Hi, Applepie and welcome to the group, I'm sorry that you have to be here for the reason that you are, but I am glad that you have found us, accepting the diagnosis is tough for a lot of us..

Are you seeing a doctor? on medications? being open with your husband is important because you are going to need his as a support system, people other than us can generally tell when something isn't right, like us being depressed or being manic, My husband can tell if I am extra quiet that there is a likelihood that I am depressed, or if I am really cranky I might be in a hypomanic state..



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07/10/2008 10:58
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Hi Carmen:

I'm new also. I just found out last year that I may have bipolarII. A coworker noticed my symptoms and I reported them to my therapist.

I cried most of the day yesterday, but I'm better today.

Keep in touch!!

I think this group is a good idea.

Welcome!

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07/10/2008 16:03
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Hi, percussion, welcome, has your doctor formally diagnosed you? are you taking something to help? crying most of the day isn't good, if you are on meds, you might need to see them for a adjustment.

I am taking 600mg of Lamictal per day, I believe it is probably the highest dose a person can take. Co-workers, spouses, parents, siblings, friends can all see a lot more than what we can see sometimes, many of us have to depend on our support systems to know what is going on that we might not see.

For me when I get on one of my crying spells I have to look at everything going on in my life, do I have a lot of stress? do I have something such as a illness beyond the bipolar going on? have I been sleeping and eating right? etc.. all these can be factors, and if there are not any of them, it's the bipolar and time to talk with my therapist and doctor to find out what it is.. I get quiet and withdrawn in depression, cry and sleep a lot, and if I am in a hypo, odds are I am either in a very happy, go get'em mood or I am just about as cranky and irritable as a person can get, short of killing someone..lol..thankfully I haven't been in one of those moods in a long long time..

This group is a great place, we have groups now for just about every illness or challenge around..

Keep posting, join in on ongoing threads/topics/discussions, start your own if you have questions, etc..

Carmen

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07/11/2008 10:31
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Thanks Carmen. I called my psychiatrist last night--he's supposed to call me back. I told him about the crying. It's always the same thing--why didn't the boys like me in high school, why didn't my coworker want to go to lunch with me last year? Am I really ugly? No one has been able to answer these questions. Mom, my husbandmy kids tell me I'm beautiful. No one treats me beautiful. My husband does, I quess, but I want to turn heads when I walk down the street. I wish my former co-worker would have gone all out and kissed me although I'm 20 yrs older, married with 4 kids. I just want to be irresistable. I hate the memories of all those boys turning me down.
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