Bipolar Type II Support Group

how to deal with a certain family member that completely sets me off. My cousin, maid of honor at my wedding. 2 years ago while DH and I were going through a rough time she tried to get with him. She was 4 months pregnant textin him things like "you could be my baby daddy" "she'll never have to know you're not hers" "she kicks everytime I talk about you" then writing publicly on FB comments to my sister in law "I love him so much, he needs to divorce cece" "we're planning a road trip to see you guys soon"

God, I finally decided to let it go when I went home for my grandpas funeral in jan. But the bitch makes EVERYTHING a compettion. Liek tonight on my FB I said "oh man, betsey johnson ran out of the bag I wanted in pink. All they have left is gun owder gray" she says "well you should;ve gotten it before it ran out, that's what I always say." i said "mike was waiting for my bday on fri" she says "well he should have pt it on hold knuckle head"

bitch is OBSESSED with marines, she is what we call a tag chaser. Went around fucking marines telling them she was infertile so she could trap them. She ended up getting pregnant by some deadbeat and after we started talking again she's message meabout coming to visit camp pendleton and find her a new "baby daddy", a marine.

She messaged me in feb "my future husband is in afghan and his unit is getting hit hard, please pray for him" then 2 weeks later she has a new future husband ANOTHER MARINE. She cheated on the deployed one. This new kid is younger than her naieve about to deploy so I'm sure they'll be getting married before he leaves so she can rake in the BAH. She's always complaining about life and fantasizing about the life of a military wife. I want to tell her here's the difference. I'M AWAY FROM ALL OF MY FAMILY AND OLD FRIENDS. I DON't TRUST ANYBODY TO WATCH MY DAUGHTER, NO FREE CHILDCARE AND HOUSEKEEPING LIKE YOU LIVING WITH YOUR MOM. WE HAVE BILLS AND MONEY TO WORRY ABOUT. MIKE IS GONE WEEKS, MONTHS AT A TIME SOMETIMES. IT"S JUST ME AND MADDIE. EVERYTHING ABOUT OUR LIVES IS DICTATED BY THE MILITARY... ugh stupid btch

God, I want to punch her in the face and knock some sense into her. WIsh I could delete her from my life.. god damn, wish i could delete her from my FB,, but my fmaily would have a fit. I told them ALL about what happened with DH and they believed it, but she's been hanging around more often lately and has them believing DH was the bad guy. I hate her.

IDK what to do.

Post edited by: usmcwife, at: 07/04/2011 01:10 AM

As a fellow military wife I understand. I see this everyday with young sailors too. I hate women like this. I think that as much as you want to shield the marines away from her you need to do so with yourself also. She is not good for you and your well being. I understand that you cannot completely cut her out of your life but you can block her from seeing or commenting on your facebook and you can also just not talk to her. This way you aren't publicly cutting her out and getting rid of her but you aren't dealing with it on a daily basis. Hun you have to worry about your own well being first and other things second.