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06/22/2011 07:47 AM
fruitymum
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What do I do when so many in my family understand my health or at least try to and then there are some that just won't accept that this is me trying my HARDEST not weak willed and I certainly am not milking it. It is these people that won't be educated as they switch off if I try. I love them so much and don't want to push them away. Basically all is fine if I can just cover this up for them! Grrr. Any advice? Sad
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06/22/2011 09:04 AM  Top
Catbaloo
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All I can suggest is to keep telling them that you are doing your best until they get it. You certainly can't cover up your illness just to make them more comfortable.
My opinions are just opinions, and should be taken as such. I am not an expert on medicines or BP disorder.

06/23/2011 05:35 PM  Top
Joy75
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You shouldn't have to cover up how you feel. That's extremely tiring. You are doing what you can to get through every day. I'm sorry your family does not understand. They need to be educated. Maybe print out some information off the internet and let them read it if they will. Tell them how their lack of support makes you feel. I agree don't cover it up just to make them comfortable. Hang in there.
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06/24/2011 07:10 AM  Top
InvisibleMe
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My family doesn't undertand because they refused to talk about it. I should confront them and let them know. I feel I don't have the energy to do it, though. I know how you feel.
~ Christine

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Lamotrigine 200 mg
Bupropion XL 450 mg
Clorazepate 30 mg (for anxiety)
Trazodone 300 mg prn (for sleep)
Xanax .5 mg prn (for anxiety and sleep)

*Please note that I am not a doctor and my advice is purely my opinion.

06/24/2011 11:06 AM  Top
fruitymum
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Well I just can't carry others issues for them anymore. I won't cover it up. Dr testing me for other health probs that are looking more & more like an autoimmune disorder as well as my BP. I'm Ill all the time and fight daily to keep it together. I'm going to stop feeling as though I have to apologize for feeling so rough. Thank you all for giving me the strength to stop protecting others from the reality of this.

Invisibleme, I hope you to can find the strength bit by bit to confront this issue as I know how it can wear you out. Hugs

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