Bipolar Type II Support Group

Well,I saw my social worker today and she thinks I would be better of living in a group environment than living alone in my flat, like I do at the moment.

She feels I am too isolated and I have been single for nearly a year, as well.

I want to stay in my flat but I see her point of view.

I am not sure what is best for me.

Thanks

Post edited by: crestwave, at: 02/15/2010 11:26 AM

Hugs, Bridget

Maybe a compromise could be reached if you commit yourself to engaging in social activities that are safe and fun, and let you meet people like yourself who want companionship and someone to talk to. Support groups, maybe? (If there are no bipolar ones nearby, perhaps something else that you identify with? In my city, there are a couple of social groups with mentally ill members, and they're very pleasant places to go for activities, lunch, games, and conversation. I hope you have something like that in your area...or, if you feel up to it, you could volunteer for just a few hours a week; you'll meet really nice people that way! Maybe your social worker will have some leads...that said, don't discount the group living idea entirely, it might be just the thing to bring you into a social setting again. Could you maybe visit one for a night or a weekend? If it's fun and a good fit, That might still be an option.

As far as living in a community setting, it could prove useful. Even as I say that, though, I cringe. After so many years in isolation (even through two marriages), the mere thought of sharing a house with people makes my headache worse. But everyone is different, as stated above, you need to go with your gut instinct. However, even if you don't choose to go community living, its still important to get yourself "out there" and socialize with the "normies".

Patrick