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09/04/2007 07:06
happy1
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Does anyone have anyone experience with a bipolar person actually holding downa job? My husband has had too many to count--always leaving a job b/c something or someone else is wrong--when actually it's HIM how has the problem....what job can a person with BiPolar actually do?!
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09/04/2007 07:11
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Have you ever tried to get him on SSI disability through social security? It isn't an easy task but worth the effort...call your local social security office and talk to a disability specialist. Help is very sparse we have found. If he can get a job where someone knows what he is dealing with and can be there for him if he needs to talk that can help but look into the SSI...my son is exactly that way but being on the right combo of meds helps somewhat and lots of frustrating talking!!!! Consider yourself hugged!
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09/04/2007 07:20
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I understand, My husband is bipolar. We have been married for twelve years and over this time he has had numerous jobs. He has either quit like you said because it wasn't for him, the boss was a pain, he didn't like the other people, or for another reason. Or he was fired because it was a down time and he couldn't do the job the way he should. For years we fought a lot because I just thought it was him. We didn't know he had an illness. We also are seriosly thinking of trying to sign him up for disability. He has not had a job for months. And right now there is now way that he could hold a job. Right now we don't even leave him alone because we are still trying to regulate his meds. I have been the primary income for the most of our marriage and understand your pain.

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09/04/2007 09:52
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I think that SSI would be an option that you would want to try.

I was at the same point and really had trouble holding a job. Last employer worked with me even after I quit multiple times.

SSI can be hard to get for some people and I know of some that had to get a lawyer to get it. They do check work history when you apply.

I am now on SSI for my Bipolar Disorder.

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10/06/2007 18:21
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I've been really fortunate that my illness hasn't made it impossible for me to keep a job. But I know of many who have struggled with this for a very long time. :hugs:
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10/06/2007 21:20
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I have actually held a job pretty consistently for the past 24 years since graduating from nursing school. I have changed locations, and finally states to keep pace with my illness, though. I now work as a mental health nurse and am actually pretty good at it. It hits very close to home way too often, though so who knows? Maybe by all my efforts to help (and save) others I am trying to save myself!

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10/11/2007 08:51
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I'm relatively new here, and noticed your post. What an inspiration. I don't know many, in fact one other person I know works a forty hour, and loves it. She seems to do well handling her BPD. It is a great thing to share your story to inspire others. Before I was diagnosed, I was successful in real estate sales, a model, I stoped when my mom died, started therpy and was in crisis, two years later I was diagnosed. I lost interest, and became very stressed out. I later became a LMT-massage therapy, and started my own company. I was in an abusive relationship which further fueled my BPD, and became very ill with other health issues. left that relationship, got out alive!Between all of these crisis, a Doctor suggested I sekk SSI, because I had lost everything, no money, no home....devastated. I got on SSI, and it was a life saver, although barely enough to eek by without the help of friends. The insurance has been a lifesaver, I actively use the system to get medical care, although my Pysc Doc, and counsel, I pay separate. I haven't had much luck with their pysc system. I have not been able to work a regular job since then. Although I am much better, I have to regulate my stress level to stay sane, and keep my other genetic health conditions from flaring up. I think it is a great thing that you have been able to work as long as you have, and are in a helping profession, that as you refered to are helping to save others, while saving your own life.Thanks for the inspiration.

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11/06/2007 08:25
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Wow, can I relate to this post. I've had so many jobs and businesses that its unbelievable. I'm scraping by at the moment with an understanding friend who has his own business. Going to the doctor today to get some help finally. Please let there be something out there that will work for me.
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11/06/2007 08:49
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Hi, I can relate all to well!Ive had to many jobs to count..I bet i would need more than my fingers & toes to count on!My husband thought it was just me being lazy..I truely could not function..Now he says dont you dare go out and get a job you can hardly handle staying at home..Argh..Its so true..I want to work so bad..I went to school spent $15,000 or maybe more on this course only to find that i couldnt work. So, there is nothing like paying on a school loan that you arent even using?

About the disability..Does what your spouse income is have anything to do whether you qualify or not?It just really sucks to not have 'my own' $$ ...UGH

Anyway, i gotta run, just wanted to say I totally understand where you are coming from!!I was told that with the right dose of med that i am on i may just be able to hold down a job..Who knows maybe miracles can happen LOL...

Amber

My name is Amber, Im 30 years old..Married for almost 12 years to my wonderful husband (together for 14). We have 2 children boy/girl. I have recently been diagnosed having Bipolar II.
Im glad to have found this website..I have lots of supportive people in my family. There is nothing else like having people to come to that truely understand, exactly what you are going thru or feeling!
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11/06/2007 09:06
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I understand completely. I spent 4 years struggling through college, to find that I could not handle the job after a while. I have issues with authority in the work place---hell I have issues with the work place in general. My s/o and I decided that I should only work part time---I tried getting SS disability but was denied because I "could follow directions". We didn't have a lawyer. I would recommend getting one.

I've had this job for about 2 years now. I hate it, but have realized I will hate any job. I don't let anyone know that I am BP because I have found in the past people only patrinized me or acted like I was infectous.

I had surgery last month and have been on disability for the last month, I have to go back to work soon and I am dreading it with every fiber of my being. My s/o is a constant in my life and in helping me hold a job--he makes me get out of bed for starters.

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