Why wear a ribbon?

"diagnosed bipolar I drug abuse for 18 years medicated mostly on lithium and ..." (kat1912)

MDJunction to me

"MD junction is a place for us to share our experiences both good and bad it is a safe haven from the ignorant and the doubters a place to vent ask advice or just get away from it all.
I am shell I am a parent with aspergers syndrome.
Four of my six children are autistic also.
I hope to give an insight from an autistic view.
" (spectrummum)
We comply with the HONcode standard for trustworthy health information:
verify here.
Bipolar Support Group
A community of patients, family members and friends dedicated to dealing with bipolar disorder, together.
Join This Group
Group Home   Forums   Articles   Members (2539)   Diaries   Leaders   Guidelines
Bipolar Community Bipolar Support Forums Tips Bipolar Triggers--'loading and unloading the gun'
Related discussions:
08/31/2007 10:28
JR1
Green-Orange Ribbon
Posts: 874
Member

Send a PM
Give a Hug
Hey Y'all!

Jones39 has started a very good thread about triggers, with some great input from bipolarmomma and moody.

Go take a look!

TRIGGERS

Love y'all!

Jim

Reply  


09/01/2007 07:00
cappy1978
Green Ribbon
Posts: 79
Member

Send a PM
Give a Hug
Aren't there things as physical triggers? I would think a death in the family, weather, a divorce and or separation would set off bipolar triggers. I know when I lost my mother-in-law last year (will be one year next week) it set me into a tail spin of a little depression...what do you think?
You can live with the bipolar disorder, not let bipolar disorder ruin you...
Reply  


09/01/2007 08:56
JR1
Green-Orange Ribbon
Posts: 874
Member

Send a PM
Give a Hug
Heya Cappy!

Thanks for your hug!

I'm not sure, but I think you're asking a question which you have already answered; however, you may not realize it.

So..., use an example such as, "I hit my thumb with a hammer." That's what you might call the triggering (physical) event.

Think carefully about what happens after I hit my thumb....

In order:

Hammer contact (event)

Pain (sensation)

Emotion (recognition)

"Owww!" (reaction)

This sequence takes place within a second or two after I hit my thumb. Where's the mood swing!?

The mood swing comes after the reaction, doesn't it?

In order:

Hammer contact

Pain

Emotion

Reaction

Result (mood change)

All five items in sequence are natural and normal for all healthy or unhealthy people; however, I (the bipolar individual) tend to experience an EXTREME result in mood change. Why?

In fact, the extreme mood change may actually continue or get worse for some time after the pain subsides. Why?

I am not a clinician, Cappy, so I will limit my answer to your question to my own experience--what happens to me.

In my case, my reaction (mood change) is always directly proportional to the intensity of each step which precedes it (e.g: more pain=more intense mood change; longer, stronger, or more complex reaction=more intense mood change; Stronger emotion=more intense mood change.

If I can control or manage any of the three (pain, emotion, or reaction), I can control or manage my mood swing.

However, controlling and managing pain and emotions is not so easy since they are largely biological ("It's not good to mess with Mother Nature!").

My REACTION, on the other hand IS NOT altogether biological, is it? My reaction is mostly behavioral. So it became apparent that every event in my life might produce a different result if I were to learn to react differently. Besides, my body has already begun to release chemicals to abate the pain and ease the emotional distress.

So the whole mess in my bipolar life boils down to one problem (that's simplistic, and not totally true...!)--how I react to people, places, and events.

So, as I said, "Where's the trigger!? Is it the event? ...the pain? ...the emotion? ...the reaction? ...the result?

Here it comes, Cappy--my opinion.... (You DID ask what I think! LOL)

I think the word "trigger" is merely a nice word (euphemism) which I have often used to blame people, places, things, and events for my inability to react appropriately to the pain and emotion of life; and I believe that my bipolar disease (call it brain chemistry if it makes you happy) and my addiction/alcoholism have usually prevented me from seeing and changing my inappropriate reaction.

That's my response. Now, what do YOU think?

Thanks again!

Jim Rist

Reply  


09/01/2007 09:53
cappy1978
Green Ribbon
Posts: 79
Member

Send a PM
Give a Hug
Thanks for the understanding what a trigger is...I have never have had it explained to me. Just reading your post, I have had some triggers in my life as a bipolar. I have had extreme highs and terrible lows...I appreciate the insight. (By the way; I edited that posting that had my e-mail) Thanks a million....
You can live with the bipolar disorder, not let bipolar disorder ruin you...
Reply  


09/01/2007 10:46
JR1
Green-Orange Ribbon
Posts: 874
Member

Send a PM
Give a Hug
Dear Cappy,

Once again, remember that I merely gave you my opinion.

My opinion is not necessarily the truth, you know.

Whatever the truth is, I took the meds for my brain chemistry, but I still had to change me--reasoning, reactions, beliefs, fears, dreams, hopes,....

Thanks to you and to hundreds of other friends who have willingly shared and helped me to make my changes. Thanks for being a part of my recovery.

Jim Rist

Reply  



Start a New Discussion

Disclaimer: The information provided in MDJunction is not a replacement for medical diagnosis, treatment, or professional medical advice. Read more.
Contact Us | Bookmark Us | Add a Doctor | For Doctors | FAQ | Awareness Ribbons
About Us | Terms & Conditions | Privacy | Spread the Word | Advertise
Copyright (c) 2008 MDJunction.com All Rights Reserved