Bipolar Support Group

Best regards,

Michael

Best,

Michael

You probably need to find women you are interested in and pursue them. Most women let the guys approach them.

I read your ad and it strikes me as negative and passive.

First, you need to get rid of every complaint and negative comment in the ad. Turn every complaint into an opportunity, if not in your real life at least in the plenty of fish world. You also need to get rid of all the photos that make you look sad and mopey. Get someone to take a photo of you where you are smiling and attractive. Adjust the colors so they aren't washed out. Get a tan if needed.

Second, the ad is passive. You basically serve yourself up and wait to be contacted. That is the woman's way of using these sites, not the man's. Men have to go get the women on these sites. It has always been that way since caveman days (don't you know cavemen invented POF?). You will have to contact ten women (at least) for each one who responds, so you might want to write a form letter that you customize for the interests and characteristics of each woman you contact. The core of the letter should be the story about you that will sell them on you. The letter needs to end with a direct request for them to write you back with a yes or no answer. Make it positive, funny, and between 150 and 250 words. That's long enough to get their attention and tell the story without being so long it gets narcissistic and boring. Turn off the Mail Settings that restrict who can email you. They will turn off some women and you never know who. So get rid of them and all other turnoffs.

Good luck!

If I were interested in dating I think I could find better ways to do it. But to each they're own, as the lady said as she kissed her cow.

Are you on Facebook? They have zoosk on Facebook.

I get messages all the time from men at POF but I am really not seriously considering dating right now. It is true that you need to pursue women on there. The only female I know that looks for men on dating sites is my best friend and she is obsessed with having a boyfriend lol

I am focused on my career right now. I will tell you that I have met a very good friend on the website that I sent you last night. His name is Noca and he lives in Canada. So don't rule out the site I sent you last night.

Good luck and don't give up. I will add that while you are awaiting replies from women, seek to add value to yourself so that way when you do meet someone you are interested in you will have that much more to offer.

I was too socially ackward to make the site work in my favor and trying something new intimidated me. Just thought I would throw in a personal experience in the matter.