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03/25/2008 16:36
MomofChase
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Hi Everyone,

I am so happy to find this group! I have a 5 1/2 year old bipolar son, named Chase, as well as 3 other children. We adopted Chase as an infant and were told that his bio. parents as well as many of his siblings had been diagnosed as BP. Chase is just a wonderful little boy, he's sweet, funny, intelligent etc. However, there is another chase that is very aggressive, goes into rages, it's been heartbreaking to watch as his mom. When he was 4 he started Pre-K, and within a month was in serious trouble at school, hitting and screaming, raging. We were fortunate to be able to take him to a psychologist that had worked with his family. He put him on Risperdal, and it instantly worked. Chase was able to be his true self. We are now a year down the line, the risperdal has had to be increased as he has grown. A couple of months ago we tried to add a medicine for ADHD and it messed Chase up bad. That month he was susspended from school 6x, and had a terrible time...and he's only in Kindergarten. He is back on the risperdal now (increased dosage) and doing much better. I am here to find any suggestions you might have in raising him, Do's or dont's, books or resources that might be recomended. I am desperate to find anything that will help me to be the best parent I can to him. He's a challenging, but wonderful child, and I want to do everything I can to set him up for a successful future. Thanks and God Bless.

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03/25/2008 16:50
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The best thing you could ever possibly do, is love him, love him, love him. Prove it everyday! Prove it with hugs & kisses and rewards and praise. As a bipolar we are pretty universal in our thoughts of not being loveable. We have somehow got in our brains we don't deserve it. We lash out with anger and hurtful words because we are scared and lonely and confused. Take a little extra time with him....your together time....& give him just a little more for awhile. You will be rewarded.

Love

Gloria

PS Welcome to the site. Feel free to ask everything you can think of. There are lots of people who care here, and we will be with you on your journey.

glory
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03/25/2008 18:24
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Dear MomofChase, My son was diagnosed at 14 yrs...and has been on meds since...regular routine, enough sleep and a stable environment are essential in keep him well. He is 25 yrs now and doing fine, with a few times not so fine...long story...but, his positive attitude is what keeps him going....Chase can lead a normal life, with love and health care....glad you joined us.
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03/25/2008 18:30
carmen33
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Hi, Mom of Chase, welcome to the group, we have several parents here with children, who have bipolar, I am sure some of them will belong shortly to share their experiences, you have found a good place, there are websites on line that deal specifically with bipolar children, you might go back through the posts and see if you can't find some about the subject, I wish you well in raising him, your lucky that you know of his history, it would be hard on you trying to figure it out.
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03/25/2008 23:24
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Welcome Momofchase,

I am glad you have found us. I have a 10 yr old son who was originally diagnosed at 5 as being ADHD. He has just started showing signs of bipolar. We have him on Respirdal, too. It seems to be helping him alot. He has always done really well in school as far as grades. But, when He is not on meds he is disruptive.

As parents, we have a very consistant schedule. My son is in therapy,

and has a case worker, that works with him. We treat him like he is a normal kid. We have chores, rules, consequences, and help him have a balance. There are a few sites online, that, I found info on parenting a bipolar child. It really helped me.

Anyway I hope, I have helped some.

God Bless,Gypsy
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