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08/29/2007 12:23
kimmy5893
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I am looking for support, I have a 21 year old son that is bipolar and we have been struggling for years, it never seems to get any better. He can't hold a job and now is trying to maintain a relationship and is expecting a baby in 6 weeks, this is so hard and I need to talk to someone who understands...people, even my closest friends, just don't get it...
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08/29/2007 12:34
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I can't give a lot of advice, but I feel your pain. My husband is bipolar. We have been married for twelve years and during this time I have been the primary income in our family. He has had a very hard time keeping any job for more than a year. We have two children. An eleven year old and a one year old. At times he is the best dad in the world and others he is very grouchy and snapping at the kids. Right now he is in an inpatient facility trying to get his meds regulated. The important thing is, Does your son admit that he has a problem and is willing to get help? If his family is like mine, money can be a problem. We have found a community clinic that sees my husband for only ten dollars a visit and helps to get his meds. There is help out there, it is sometimes hard to find. Is his girlfriend/wife aware of his illness? She should be involved in his treatment. I hope this helps some. I didn't have a lot to add, but I just wanted you to know that there are other people out there that are feeling the same way.
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08/30/2007 09:17
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As a person with bipolar, I know it is incredibly hard on my husband, friends, and family. My husband just recently began to understand the disease enough to know that when I in a depressive cycle that I need help and extra support. I feel that's unfair to him and yet I've come to accept that having a support system in place is neccessary. It's also hard on my friends and husband when I'm in a very high manic cycle because I make foolish decisions and come up with all these great ideas for businesses, projects, etc. and then I go off and start one and then of course as the cycle ends, things fall apart in our lives.....again.

Accepting that you have this disease is vital because unless you are willing to do that, you can't even begin to understand what it is doing to your own life and the lives of those who love you. I too would strongly recommend getting your son into a doctor that can get him on meds and also start to help him understand what this disease does to him and others in his life. It's hard and frustrating and my heart goes out to anyone who is contending with having someone in your life that is bipolar.

I don't know if this helps but my thoughts are with you while you struggle with his illness and the consequences of it as well.



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08/30/2007 09:25
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Actually he is on meds and sees a doc regularly and has for years! I am just looking for support, people to understand what we live and how we worry. I have educated myself immensely over the years and he is educated as well just looking for support for me...thanks!
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09/06/2007 09:44
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it is common for people not to understand. the best thing is not to critisize him for it.

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