carmen33
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What to do? Daddiesgirl, like it or not, you have to take care of you, and you need to get to your doctors, period, people out here in South Carolina just drive me crazy, the way that they will cater to the Bosses whims and not do what they know they need to do for themselves, a lady that I worked with 5 years ago, wanted to take sometime off and spend with her dying Mother, and the boss told her No, she could not have the time off, she didn't take it and lost her mom a short time later, she will forever regret not spending that time with her Mom, and will carry a resentment against the boss for the rest of her life.. Bosses don't like me too much because I am not afraid of Authority.. like bosses are considered.. most of the time I am very flexible, and will do 150% above what is required of me, I've been known to go into my work, on my day off, or even on vacation and have the boss tell me he/she needed me to work, I went to work, at where I work now, my day off the boss said he needed me, I went to work in street clothes, at a department store, I use to work at, I went shopping on my vacation, the boss said she needed me, I bought clothes off the rack and went to work, screwed up payroll for a couple of weeks trying to figure out how they were to do my vacation time vs. work hours but oh well. As tacky as it might sound, if the place burns down today, your work schedule isn't going to matter, your not that important.. you do what you have to do to take care of you, short and simple. Why you are doing so well now? your probably like I am, calm and cool in crisis and fall apart later, you know that you need to be..simple and straight. |
"When I was diagnosed I was scared didn't know what to do or where to go..I started reserching bipolar and somehow ended up here at MD....Again scared but needing to know what was in store I asked a question..WOW the people who care..I know I would be lost now if I did not join..made many friends and they have helped me through thick and thin. and never judged...........XX Thank you MD and all.Love all of you.......Laurie Pachin" (puppylover)
