graphdsnmouse
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AllShookup...It is hard for family members to accept that there mom/dad/sister/brother has any type of illness but especially one like BP. Unfortunetly society has put such a stigma on BP that it is hard for anyone to get a clear understanding. My mom was diagnosed BP back in the days when there was even less understanding and very little known about what medications would be best. When she went to the hospital we were told she was "going for a rest". If she had an episode we were told "she's just having a bad day". Even though we knew this wasn't "normal" we accepted her because she was our mom. Years later when I was diagnosed (and even though more was understood and there were many medications available) my husband still wasn't conviced it was a "real" illness. He was a big mind over matter, practical thinker. I finally dragged him to my med doc so she could explain that it was a chemical embalance and not something I was just going to get over. With that, he started putting that logical mind to work and read everything he could about BP. It finally made him understand several key points. One, that it was going to be a long process for me and for him (and our kids). Also that he could be part of this process, and finally that there was a light at the end of the tunnel in that once I became stable, he would have his wife back. As my daughters grew up we had to repeat the process with them with age approriate information. They are now young adults who not only have an understanding of there mom, but also of other BP people they may meet in life. Your daughter would defintly benifit from a visit to your doc or by reading up on BP. However, given her age she may resist this. So for yourself, continue to educate yourself so you may pass on this knowlege to her as well as reinforce in you that this is a real illness that has treatable symptoms that will let you lead a fullfilling life! Hugs (lots of them 
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My daughter of 26 thinks most bipolar people are over diagnosed and by talking with others on the web, in therapy, etc.. only enhances the need to exhibit symptoms and be more bipolar. Sort of out of sight out of mind. If you're not around seeing and talking about it you won't act like it. I totally disagree and she can never understand what we go through but how do I explain this to her? She thinks I put on "a show" when I want and turn it off when I don't. Any ideas?
What a great help you all are to me. I didn't even think about taking her to see my psychiatrist. I have been diagnosed with Bipolar1 for about 3 years. I have always been very honest and open about my illness and I'm sure she sees how it effects our relationship and my personality. I must be careful not to blame all my actions on being "bipolar." I know that can lead to problems. My daughter and I are working on our relationship and I would consider us close it's just she thinks I'm dramatic and she feels everyone has "moods." She just doesn't know how deep they go. Thanks again
