I was told by my father tonight that my great aunt and grandma on both sides of my family fake like they care about me to my face do dont really care about what i say or talk about.
Then he told me that grandma cares and he changed his story.
He told me that the only people that care are my admittet family which would be my husband and children.
The stuff that I have been confiding to my great aunt and grandma about my mental state and what I am going through they are fakeing like they care. But in the end they dont really care.
I want to get them out of my life until they can act like parents and grandparents,which might not ever happen but I have a younger brother that is almost `14 and we are really close. And its not fair for him not to see me or me not to get to see him. He has cerbrak palsy. He have talk but cant talk. I love him so much and wounldnt know what to do without him in my life. He as a great peronality and very intellagent.
It is sad to see him in the middle of this.
Post edited by: noahwiatt, at: 10/30/2009 11:27 PM
I'm sorry you are in this position. It must be hard on both of you. I hope it's not for long. Family dynamics can be very stressful and it sounds like yours is dysfunctional. I encourage you to see a therapist to help you sort out your feelings and to give you ideas of how to deal effectively with your parents and grandmother. I do hope things begin to improve soon so you can see your little brother.
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